Threesome with my friend???

Ok so, my friend and i have messed around before but just grabbing and touching over clothes and kissing and such, and we're both bisexual, and now she's offering to bring this guy she met in for a threesome, but thats the only experience either of us has had with the same sex, and this guy said he wants us eat each out which scares both of us because we're never done it before, and another thing i've never done a threesome before so what would i do basically (like when he's with her)??? i dont it just confuses me

 

First of all don't do anything you don't want to do, don't feel pressured by anyone, you're young and have plenty of time to do things like that, if and when you are ready. I had a threesome once and it was a disaster but that doesn't mean yours will be. If you're gonna do it then plan it out and communicate with each other, there's no shame in being inexperienced. The guy is expecting miracles if he thinks you're both going to perform like pornstars. Practice makes perfect.

 

Is it a random guy she is bringing into it? Better hope he is clean.

 

Yeah, that's true. This doesn't sound like a good idea to me, it's obvious she doesn't feel comfortable with it.

 

Good advice Anaconda man & Nickmast. AliceIW you have time find someone you both agree on.

 

If you are in the least bit uncomfortable please do not participate. Remember, you are bisexual for YOUR pleasure, not your friends pleasure and certainly some guy she met.

 

If you don't feel right about it,don't do it.Free will.

 

If you really wanna do it than go for it. If you feel uncomfortable thats normal, it doesn't mean your not "ready" to do it. Think of it as loosing your 2nd virginity. No matter who you are doing it with there is some level of feeling uncomfortable because you dont know exactly what to expect, but that can be exciting and add to the fun!
Threesomes can be great.
If you wanna do it than by all means you should.
And since the two of you are scared about the oral sex on eachother b/c you havent done it b4, read up on it on the internet..do some research. Dont assume that because you are a girl you will be good at it. Every girl is some what different in what they like best.
Maybe you and this girl should try some one-on-one first, before you bring in a third party.
It will be loads of fun and it will relieve some of the uneasiness that the situation may bring.

 

i was thinking the same thing when I read "Random Guy" just make sure he's clean and your friend knows him atleast alittle, you can never be too careful these days. Just have fun with it though, if you dont know what your doing its really not much different than your first time giving a male oral, you may have been nervous had no clue what to do lick it like a lolli pop, bite it, suck it. You just had no clue well you learned you think your good at it now get down there and do the same thing for her learn, practice makes perfect.

 

be warned, no matter how 'one time deal', your relationships will change.
AND FOR FUCKSSAKES< stop ACTING towards other femmes because theres a man involved. men have taken everything, EVERYTHING, and now they're stealing feminism by making lesbians 'hot'.

 

wow thats crazy shit right there......

 

lol, wtf? Did men steal your brain too?

 

By making lesbians 'hot', women are stealing mens money, lol.

 

Uh lesbians are "hot" - the idea that two girls are getting it on does not entice you ? ...if you wanna call me hot go right ahead I won't be offended...

Actually I know some lesbian couples and they are more loving than "hot" but I still bet they're pretty hot when they're alone.

 

I would say you should get some practice and experience with one-on-one contact before you start the threesome. That's like going from zero to ninety.

 

set rules before you get naked, and you might wanna get to know the guy first and make sure he's informed about safe sex. If you just wanna go one on one make that clear - my threesome got really weird and I wound up bolting because all I wanted was the girl and this guy kept trying to touch me.

 

figure out how comfortable you are with each seperate aspect for instance:
1)sleeping with a guy you don't know
2)once you have done a girl you can't really take it back
3)jepordizing you and you friends platonic relationship
4)you may be bi but you are a lesbi virgin if all you have done is make out
5)same-sex sex is very intimate generally speaking and if you don't know what your doing it can be embarassing

well, good luck and look before you leap or should i say lick?

 

Watching two women having sex, especially when one is your wife, is the hottest thing I've watched.

 

shut up! talk about talking something to DEATH!! more action less jabbering! these guys are jealous cause its not them so there filling your head with doubts and worry. the mystery is the adventure and if it was them theyd tell you this! Do it the worst that happen is you'll die of aids, so? get condoms, follow the feeling, and screww your brains out!!!! (speaking from being the man in the threesome) in your face losers!!

 

you idiot im a lesbian!