Ok so I told my wife of 18 years that my main fantasy was a 3some and even more so seeing her w/ another woman. Meaning that I promised to only have sex w/ my wife during the threesome and frankly I was serious. I would prefer to see them go at it anyways. She said "sure" and but went back and forth a few days regretting it but now feels its too late to go backwards and wants to do it for me. Now we have found one nice lady locally on a SugarDaddy website willing to do this. (for $) I meet and screened her too - divorced and says not even Bi but craves a woman from time to time. (she also has a profile on a free dating website that is looking for girls to be friends with or more) She also is looking for more than just sex but a companion too to go do nails with or something she says. I thought this would be great and allow my wife a chance to get comfortable and them hang out too. So we are in the interview process now were my wife is meeting w/ her at her home tomorrow for 2nd time (first time was at bar for 1 hour and nothing much was accomplished except just breaking the ice) to ask a lot of questions about how this works and arrangment details. I told the woman to mainly talk/text w/ my wife to get this done so my wife wouldnt get jealous of me talking to this woman. But last 2 days this woman is acting like a bitch to me and I know she is more into my wife for this anyways because she told me how hot she was. Originally, I thought about letting them 2 go at it ALONE as long as I got some pics or videos but the 2nd girl said no to that. She also texted my wife that she prefers to be w/ one woman or one man and threesomes are awkward. And asked her if she has ever been with a woman alone before. So, my questions are.... 1) Should me and wife have a rule that neither is alone with her? 2) I am wanting to save as much money as I can on this deal too so is there a way to use the 2nd girls desire for my wife as leverage maybe? 3) My wife is worried about me getting to close to the 2nd woman but it seems I should be just as concerned about her getting to attached to my wife or wife falling for her ( I dont see happening this since my wife is straight but never know)? If the 2nd girl was open to getting video/pics I was going to suggest letting them go at it alone. Is this smart or dumb? Ideas anyone? Am I being too analytical here and should we just try it once and go from there or stop now before it's too late?
I've only been involved in one threesome and it was MFM. I'll never be involved in a FFM threesome, as my wife has ZERO interest in other women (sexually, at least). In a FMF threesome, I wouldn't know where to begin!
I would ditch the whole thing. She's a bitch, and it sounds like your wife doesn't want to do it anyway.
