Threesome request

Any advice on 3somes. Has anyone had a 3some with their friend and her friends husband?
both are very hot and very sexual but I was thinking about the aftermath .
How would it affect our friendship?

 

I think you would be better advised to have a threesome with people you don’t normally socialise with. It can cause trust issues with your relationship, and theirs. It’s a gateway to cheating and being cheated on. Don’t make that mistake. Enjoy a threesome with people you don’t know. Plenty of guys are up for threesomes, it wouldn’t be hard to find them.

 

Most people post about great and fun things, not usually the bad, as Jamie ^^^^ has said above, jealousy and trust issues can put the damper on a great friendship quickly. Keeping things out of the workplace is also advised.

My gf and her bff would enjoy each other, eventually my gf started to get jealous of her friend if she seen us talking to long while at a party etc. it started to pull them apart, also be prepared for your secret to be revealed, who will be affected etc,

Our secret was eventually found, friend’s lost, trust destroyed, relationships ended etc.

 

I've been in a couple of FMF threesomes. Both were great fun and very pleasurable. Both were with partners I don't socialize with except for sex. That's the best way for myself personally. For others it depends on the emotional stability with each participant. I advise you to pick up a book written by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy titled "The Ethical Slut". In it they explain the emotions of having open relationships and the perils involved. Having a threesome with another couple opens up their relationship. It also may bring forth emotional issues with any one or all of the participants. Plus there may become feelings of attachment for you with one or both of the other participants. No matter how the suggestion came up I think you would benefit from the read. Then you will know how a threesome may affect a relationship between all of you.

 

Have they asked you to be in a threesome with them? Would you be doing sexual things for just your friend's husband? Or would you also do stuff with your friend, like licking her out?

 

Communication..........
We got involved with a couple we've been friends with for years.
When we decided to go this route we discussed things and eased into things and also laid some ground rules.
Its been great fun.....

 

All of our handful of threesomes were with our friends . And we never ran into a problem with friendships. It was ether a one or two time thing and that was it. None of or friendships were hampered by it.

 

Same with us. My wife and I were involved in a half-year long MFM threesome with a close personal male friend. Sometimes it was only nominally a threesome, as my wife and our friend would get together and fuck without me being involved or even present. (I knew about and didn't have any problems with it, although I would have preferred being there. Not necessarily to participate, but I absolutely LOVED watching another guy fuck my wife!)

 

It wasn't so much as watching another person with my wife . It was the fact that she was enjoying the experience with another person and really getting into it. I don't think I ever sat back and watched it from the side line.

 

thanks

 

Good question

 

I'm my case it was my bf and his friend. From that first time his friend thought of me as just a piece of meat. Not that I care, because sex was great, and honestly I thought of him in the same way.

 

It has to be talked about and every move respected. Still fun in the moment I’m sure

 

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I’m guessing looking at one another as a piece of meat can lead to some raw, aggressive sex. Nothing wrong with that!

 

Agree....best threes are either when no one knows each other or at least the third is not an acquaintance.

Can definitely upset relationship dynamics IMHO.

simon

 

Agreed. Discovering about new people in this way adds excitement.

 

We are presently, slowly, working into a threesome with my friend. My wife has allowed him to do some soft play and she has done some oral on him. I am perfectly comfortable with him playing with my wife. He watched us fuck. My wife is helping him with a ED problem.

 

I had a threesome the other night with my wife and her friend. All very sudden but we enjoyed ourselves. My wife thought I got involved too much but I pointed out that she did too. We agreed it went well and we aim to do it again.

 

Be very cautious doing this I had 2 wives suggest they wanted to try a MMF 3some even tho I made my feelings known it wasn’t my thing they both used me to meet guys in my Club and cheat with them behind my back which is why both those wives are Xwives now .

as I have noted I another tread I have never had a MMF 3some and now my 3rd wife of 8 years has expressed her interest in it ,
And I’m concerned if I decline I will see my past repeat itself .