Threesome regret...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Tasty1, Aug 8, 2020.

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Anybody regret their actions...

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  1. Tasty1

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    My wife and I had a threesome with a friend of ours last week. C is his name and I thought we were ready for it but I have this regrettable feeling. Help. Advice?
     
  2. ~Zen~

    ~Zen~ Ancient Mariner Administrator

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    Playing a dangerous game with your relationship is what you are doing.

    What did you expect to happen after sharing your partner with someone else?

    I see a lot of guys and girls talking about three ways, etc. From my experience that would be a great way to END a relationship.
     
  3. Tasty1

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    Thanks for your input...
     
  4. Candy Gal

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    I agree with Zen.
    Now, what will you do?
     
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  5. Tasty1

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    I guess suffer inside. She wasn't forced into it. Just so you know...
     
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  6. Candy Gal

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    I think you must discuss your feelings together.
    I have not done this, but I truly feel that to sit and talk about it, is a good start.
    That shows you care.
    Go do that now. xxx
     
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  7. Tasty1

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    Thanks for the advice...

    Hope this feeling goes away soon...
     
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  8. Candy Gal

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    It will if you share your feelings with your wife. Trust me on that. Don't let this worry fester.

    Good Luck. xx
     
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  9. Just for fun

    Just for fun Live your best life

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    Discussing that fantasy before and during sex IMO is better than actually having a third person in your bed. When its done you take a shower and the fantasy is washed away.
     
  10. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Lol @ fantasy is better than the real thing.

    Yeah, what's making you feel regrettable? Is it the feeling of like a loss that your wife has had someone else now? That'll go away, don't worry about that. Unless it was bad sexperience, focus on the positives.

    But this might also be your sign that it's just not for you in the end. I'm the opposite, I realised how easy sex was how it could be very social and didn't need to be tied down to social and religious structures. Sex is social for me.

    Hope you feel better soon, probably you should have went another woman first. Who wants 2 guys as a first 3som? Lol.

    Go talk to your wife and suggest an escort for a 3som, get the two girls together. ;)
     
  11. phil1965

    phil1965 Senior Member

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    some fantasies are best left as fantasies, as you have discovered turning them into reality only leads to trouble, I only hope for both your sakes that you can repair the damage that acting out your fantasy has caused, good luck.
     
  12. jimandjan

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    I would like to know if you talked this over before hand or a spur of the moment thing. I have been on both sides of threesomes, and all went well both ways. Also did the wife and other guys enjoy? All threesomes are different, so to each his own.
     
  13. Robert B

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    My wife and I are getting close to her having sex with a good friend of ours. She's never been with anyone but me and is scared, but curious.
     
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