Thought I Was Straight

Anyone grew up thinking they were straight then began to thnk about sex with the same sex?

 

Nope......I'm Not A Screwed Up Mess Like You Are........I Always Knew I Was Gay....... :biker:



Cheers Glen.

 

I grew up straight and started becoming a little more .. Bi-curious , i had an amazing experience with the same sex before, but then i came to realize i love dick too much
if you are going through curiosity... experience it and see how ya feel.

 

I will admit to being extremely curious about how it feels to suck a cock. My wife tells me it's great and she thinks I would be really good at it!

 

I Thought I was straight until I was maybe 13? That is when I was flipping through some girly magazine and saw an ad for something that had scarlett Johansson in it in lingerie on a swing. It gave me that giddy crush feeling and I ended up tearing out the ad and saving it. I knew I liked boys though too.

 

I was curious and experimented a lot. Felt weird about it but kept going for years until i liked it. I figured i must be bi. The guy that forced me to do things got homophobic after i started liking it making it more gay that i liked it versus prison rape lol.

 

being bi isn't the same as being gay...perhaps you're the one confused?...

 

actually being bi is the same as being gay is the same as being straight in all cases you are seeking what you feel you do not have. (as Socrates said "you only want what you don't have") if you are "straight " you want the opposite sex. If you are "gay" you wan the same sex and if you are Bi you realize that if you are not a whole being you want more of both. but realize this, that what you really want is the happiness that comes from wholeness. A gay person finds her or himself more whole if they have more or the physical and mental gender they feel they need. that is why in the gay world they are also not monolithic. there are Butch and fem gays in both sexes. (as there are with straight people) They want in their own physical gender either more of the same or more of the opposite But what we all want is that feeling of wholeness How many times have you heard the phrase "He/ She completes me" When you enter into a relationship simply because you love the other person and want to be with that person then it doesn't matter if they and you are gay/ straight/ bi o or whatever your self identifies or society identified label is Yous you as, you are with them not just for the sex but for love and that is what will really give you fulfillment and satisfaction Gay/ straight or trans-gendered, 2 spirited, queer or bi whatever, You want wholeness and you really want to share love with another person The labels can mix and match. What you cannot do though is have sexual relations and love with everyone. In that relationship you cannot love equally, that is virtually impossible. it is much easier and more realistic to love one at least at a time, for relationships begin and end. each time they do though can be very traumatic otherwise divorce would be a much more popular activity.
Rhydywyn the Green.

oh and remember what they say "the biggest sex organ is the brain" In other words sex may occur in the body but it is always really experienced by the mind. and if you are Bi sexual and have only two lovers you are always going to love one more than the other therefore you will always hurt one more than the other who do you want to hurt more, and if so, do you actually love them?and if it's just physical gratification you are looking for you can usually do that better by yourself "what did Woody Allen say? "Masturbation is sex with someone I love".

 

Being gay and bisexual are two different things!

 

Not during sex unless you do both sexes at the same time. I remember having sex with a girl then thinking i need something more and called my buddy. Wasn't really a sexual need versus a need she couldnt provide at the time. Think i slept with her again later that night

 

Yep. Then I acted on it. And it's been an obsession since.

 

30 percent of men can suck their own cock, no need to wait.

 

That may be true Old Dude but I think I've become less supple as the years have gone by. Here's my main thought on the subject for you;
"If I could, I would!"
Thanks for the statistics though!

 

I have always been completely straight until a long-time lady friend of mine (who I also thought was straight) planted a monumental kiss on me on my last birthday. It took me off guard but after a while I couldn't stop thinking about it and now I want to experience more. Not sure how far I want to go, so I'm still just thinking about it.

 

I knew I was straight - until the firstI started sucking on a penis

 

I feel like I always knew I was bi. But growing up in Texas it wasn't really accepted and still isn't, at least not in my area. I tried to deny it but I finally accepted it around age 12/13 and had never looked back!

 

TXGuy1985 I know how you feel being from Texas myself.

 

I Once Thought I Was Too.......Then At The Age Of 10........ It Hit Me Like A Ton Of Bricks.........



Cheers Glen.

 

I knew I was bi as long as I can remember. My family may not know, But I have made it clear to my friends. And they are all fine with it.

But here recently, my best friend who been married (To Women) a few times. Came to me and asked if we could get married. Now we had tag teamed a few girls over the years, but never anything between us. When I asked about his sudden feelings, he said he had felt something for me for years. But only recently acknowledged to himself that it was love towards me he was feeling. So we have been taking it slow, and we are both happy with our relationship.

I guess what I'm saying, is you may feel like your straight. But you never know who you will fall in love with. When you find that special person, Love them...

 

Ever since I was in my teens I always thought about what it would be like to have a same sex experience. I want to believe that I was straight and did not want to do anything "Gay". Then when I was in my mid 40s before I had a penis in my mouth for the first time, that was when I discovered that I am Bi. - I am sorry I waited so long, I miss so much.