Okay so I'm really new to sex with other women, and I guess I'm just kind of wondering if butt stuff is a thing that queer women do somewhat frequently in bed? Because not even gonna lie, I love anal play, but I don't know how many queer girls are actually down to do it and how many actually truthfully love it. So yeah...um...help? Please?
it really depends on the womon, personally I don't like it at all but I have a friend who prefers it over anything else. The key is being honest with your partner and see how things go.
I don't know about that though. I know guys can be really into anal, but I have a few female friends (some straight, one bi) who love it too. I just don't know how common it is among queer girls in general or if it's talked about openly in lesbian circles or relationships.
It is not a necessarily a lesbian thing to do. Anything can be lesbian if it between two girls I believe. But there are women who would enjoy butt stuff. I enjoy it myself. Maybe try to find a partner with those interests as well?
I am Bi.. and I love it very much. I didn't at first to be honest... but after the right instruction, and being patient. it feels amazing!!! I have always loved to give it tho.. Im a butt girl!!!
interesting, seems a lot of butt gals are answering this thread, makes sense because it's titled 'butt stuff'..I've always came across women who are not into anal, when there are posts in the love & sex forum and people ask girls if they like anal, many are opposed, and say no thanks... I've tried it and it's feels okay.. just not something I'm particularly into at all.. it always seems the guys are the ones crazy about anal
Actually have tried it more than a few times and yes it can feel great, but my personal preference is to just use my ass for shitting.
hahahaa.. nice. true.. But I will say this also.. that after a good ass pounding.. Even taking a shit, feels good coming out. hahahaha I wouldn't say orgasmic.. but good. Lol
I'm more into a little tongue in that area and not much larger. Unless it's delivering special...medicine. :leaving:
I have only put mdma up my butt. You know whiskey is supposed to go in a syringe. (I know someone who did that before. Wasn't me. And it was vodka.-I'm not sure the point as like, taking a shot (drinking shot! geez!) works pretty damn fast...)
Anal play is quite common among women when lovemaking, although actual penetration not so much: certainly in my experience (which is reasonably wide) although strap-ons are used more widely than thought, this does not transfer into anal use. Probably the exception rather than the rule.
My wife and I enjoy anal play especially with a strap-on. I have a old post in the favorite sex positions that details it. We don't go there all the time, but when we do it's definitely a great bonus. The primary reason we don't do it all the time is not because of distaste or apathy. It's because when you like one size dildo in the front and another in the back, it's a pain to switch units mid play. Then there's the clean up... Usually we reserve it for special occasions when we have the time to enjoy the benefits of all the work.