This girl I like in school... =/

My class was just changed last Thursday, and then there was a girl I liked. =/

We don't know each other, and I really like her.

I want to be with her, but I'm too shy.

What should I do?! o_o

BTW: I'm in 9th and 14 years of age.

 

>:|

 

start by saying hello to her. then make small talk by asking her about herself...her likes and dislikes...get to know her, get involved in her interests, and take it from there.

 

Hey man whats up. First, you should try to get to know her a bit. I dont know how well you know of her but what you know of her isnt the same as knowing her. Then depending on what kind of vibes you get you'll get a feeling as to how she feels about you. As to being shy... think this over to youself "would you rather sit around thinking about how things might be if you were with her, or would you rather give it a try and be a man."

You may find yourself laying next to her in the middle of a wheatfield laughing at the fact that one day you were so scared to talk to her and how now(being the future) you two are so close

And if you try (which you should) and it doesn't work out...Fuck it, it will only make you stronger for when an even prettier girl comes along, which they indeed do.

PS- confiedence is the key

 

exactly

 

i talked to the girl i liked
after school
she walks fast
when we were waiting for the train
and when the train was coming
i went up to her
and said
"hey"
she's like
"hey"
:-\
then im like
"why do you walk so fast?"
she's like
"that's how i walk"
and that's it
:-\
O_________O

I said this in a chat, so that's why it's like that.

Does she think I'm a stalker? Should I say "I like her" before she thinks I am one?

o_o

 

lol, I love it.

 

She'll only think you're a stalker if she starts seeing you everywhere she goes. Don't act so serious when you're around her. Try to make her laugh and then go onto some friendly conversation. Just talk to her for awhile and you should be able to get an idea of whether or not she's interested in you. If she's actively participating in the conversation, asking you questions, smiling and laughing, etc., then she'd probably say yes if you asked her out. On the other hand, if she's not really making eye contact, giving you one-word answers, and not really carrying the conversation at all, then you probably want to just forget about it, or try again another day.

Don't worry if she says no or if you make a total ass of yourself. Just move on. Learning to deal with the opposite sex is a social skill and it takes practice. You're only 14, so you've got plenty of time to learn. Good luck, bro.

 

BTW, I just noticed your username was "PrettyUgly." It doesn't sound like you have a great deal of confidence in yourself, and that's a problem. I've plenty of not-too-attractive guys that end up with gorgeous girls. The key is how you conduct yourself. Confident guys get girls. It's that simple. What you can do to build up your self-esteem is to set a goal for yourself everyday. Start with small things like making eye contact and smiling when you walk by someone you don't know. Find things you do well and take pride in them. Find things you aren't happy with and work on them. Again, good luck, man.

 

The name was used as a gimmick. =/

 

rofl at that convo

 

I arrived at the train station. Then Nichole arrives. I decide to do nothing, I don't know why. The train arrived, and I went on. Then when the train arrived at a stop, it said it was going to skip a bunch of stops up to the last stop, so I had to get off. Nichole also had to get off. I went up to the front, and then I stopped, and turned around, and saw her. I then walked up to her and said "hey". She then replied with "hey" back at me. I asked her what was her stop, and she answered. About half minute later I said "hey" to get her attention, and told her she was cute. She said "thanks". Another half minute later I said "hey" again. Then I said, "the truth is, I like you". She said "okay". Then I asked "do you like someone else?" She said "yes". I then asked "who?" and she replied, "I'm not telling you". I felt rejected. I asked her if we can be friends, and she said yes. The train arrived and I decided to go to a different train car because I felt a bit down. The end.

 

add me to ur MSN bro, give you some pimpin lessons
I would discuss it on here, but im pretty sure most people would hate on me, So

 

95% of the people in my school pose as gangsters. I'm in the 5% who don't. There's mostly Hispanics and African-Americans. I dislike the mainstream. I'm a loner. I think the girl is a loner too.

Yep. :|

 

okay .. u tried and failed.. no worries.. keep trying. u'll find another girl to fall for I promise u that. I remember having 6 crushes in one year when I was 14. but next time try a slightly different tact.

so much of communication is non-verbal. before u even get to talking try smiling. if she's interested she'll smile back.. even if she isn't u've established u want to get to know her better. keep smiling each time u see her then say hi. don't go straight out and say u like her. u've probably been feeling that way for ages. she doesn't know that u feel that way and u haven't given her a change to like u back. make small talk. find out things about her. what does she like.. what does she do for fun. don't feel u've always got to talk for a long time. have a conversation that lasts a few minutes that makes her laugh/smile then say u've got to go.. make her want to talk to u next time for longer. if she likes u back in return, then at some point she'll make the effort to come up and speak to u. that's when u can go for longer conversations.. or even ask her out - after all u've established u're not a creep and more u can have a conversation with her she enjoys. try that for starters . good luck!

 

I'm going to ask her next week after school if it would be okay to walk with her. Is it a good thing that she knows I like her? =/

 

=/

 

if your shy around this special girl my personal advice is drink a couple of whiskey.....it will help you loosen up..then start a simple convrsation with her

 

I think she is a loner. So am I.