Thinking about wife having sex with another man

My wife and I are in our late 70s, married for over 50 years, and we still enjoy sex with each other about twice a month. Things don't come as easily as they once did, but with the help of Viagra and some toys, we both still manage to reach orgasm. I'm not able to maintain an erection long enough for her to get off, so after the usual foreplay I hand her the female vibrator and she pleasures herself for a few minutes while I keep myself hard. When she gets to the point where she is almost ready to cum, she rolls over on her side and tells me she wants me inside of her. After I enter her, she has an amazing orgasm in less than a minute. I'm so fortunate that I can still please her that way. I sometimes finish inside her as well, but most of the time I finish by masturbating or using a male vibrator called a Satisfyer. She gives me sweet words of encouragement and watches me when I climax. Man, I do love that woman. She is satisfied with these twice-a-month get togethers, but I'm not, so I masturbate three or four times a month while watching porn videos.
Over 40 years ago, I accidentally discovered that my wife was seeing my best friend while I was away on business trips. I confronted her with this, and she didn't deny it. The most she would admit to, however, was having lunch at a restaurant near his office and to some kissing and petting in his car. When I would press her for more details, she would change the subject to the time years before when she found out that I had had a relationship with someone we both knew. So I'll never know how far she and my former friend took things, but my imagination runs wild with thoughts of them having sex together.
When I masturbate, I use those images to help me get an erection and to reach orgasm. I search for porn videos in which the woman in the video resembles my wife as she looked 40 years ago. I talk to the screen and tell the woman to enjoy the man's hard cock and to have a great orgasm. One of my favorite videos is of a woman giving a man head in the front seat of a car, which is how I imagine my wife having sex with my friend.
It's a funny thing, but I can't enjoy myself masturbating if my wife is at home, although she is fine with it. It's hard to have these fantasies of her with another man if she's downstairs folding laundry. But as soon as she drives away to go shopping, my clothes are off and I'm at my computer enjoying my fantasies with my cock in my hand. I've read about why such thoughts can get a man excited, but I won't go into that here.
Needless to say, I was very angry with my friend when I found out about him and my wife, and I never saw him again. But looking back on it, he probably did me a favor in that he gave me a lifetime of fantasies to work with. Now I, as an old man, can still enjoy sex with my wife or on my own.
I'd be interested to know if other men have similar fantasies about their wives having sex with another man.

 

Not sure why I am having issues with this display. Sorry for the multiple posts. If this keeps up, I'll give up.
Anyway, yes, I have had such fantasies and have shared them multiple times with my wife. She often gets excited at the idea, but is wholly unwilling to play it out for real. That may be for the better. In any case, I get how this all turns you on.
More importantly, I admire how you and your wife have adapted and accommodate each other so well. As you say, it gets more difficult with age. Sometimes it is just easier to stick with fantasies and self-gratification. Good for you!
C

 

Thank you for sharing. I too have fantasies while masturbation about sharing my wife with another man all though she would never do it.

 

It’s a fun fantasy, even though it will never happen…

 

Same for me would love to watch as she takes a nice hard cock. Fantasy is I would be sucking on her nipples and she is giving me a handjob. Getting hard just thinking about it.

 

I've mentioned it, but my wife has never had any interest doing anything with anyone else. Not even doing me in front of anyone else

 

I never thought it would happen either . . .

 

Same here wife not interested at all. With my new wife of 3 years when she said no there is no changing her mind. However she is 100 times better than my first wife.

 

That’s an interesting one, too, like same-room sex? Another couple present? Or like balcony sex, when you know someone is watching?

 

Same room sex is hot. Hearing the other couple is such a turnon. My wife got pretty loud - she wanted them to hear us.

 

Wow what a thought. I will see if I can conjure up a fantasy about putting on a show, which I know will never happen.

 

Do you folks here ever read Literotica stories?

 

I find them long drawn out stories mostly about people's fantasies more than actual events. So....no I'm not much into them

 

Do I think about her having sex with another man? No definitely not, I find a big turn off.
Except for with her brother. When they were younger and both still living at home, on the rare occasions they were alone in the house they would occasionally go up to the attic where they could hear anyone coming and sit at either end of an old bed and mastur bate while watching one another. It happend 4 or 5 times and that's as far as it went, they never touched one another. I think he would have been up for it but not touching was her way of excusing what they were doing. It took her a lot of courage to tell me about it and was pleasantly surprised that I found it a turn on.

 

My wife and I fantasized about this all the time, but I really don't know if it will go anywhere. Hopefully someday it will, for now, it's a great fantasy for spicing things up.

Of, course half of the fantasy is for me to enjoy him too. LOL

 

I think about it all the time. Sometimes I picture someone we know, sometimes a stranger...and I mix it up with different scenarios. We used to role play it, but that's done. Now I just enjoy finding other like minded husband and chatting about our wives in great detail

 

Can't wait to hear what No 3 will be like as well as her percentage! lol

 

I do all the time but also don't like extra long stories and top of the list is "Loving Wives" which usually is the most popular and saturated with stories of Wives being shared.

 

Many times I sent my FB home to her hubby with cum soaked panties. We'd meet up in a hotel a few times a month. I'd fuck her for a couple of hours. Afternoon delight. Then fill her pussy with cum. Most times she would slip her panties back on without cleaning up as we dressed to leave. I noticed once some cum oozing down her leg when she stood up. Seems the panties couldn't contain the goo. I found out later her husband was clueless and didn't have a sex drive. He didn't know about our trysts and if he did he probably didn't care.