I can agree that things being out of order leads to msbehaviour at times. Is this what you were getting at?
It's an example of Estuary English slang: http://grammar.about.com/od/e/g/EstuaryEnglishterm.htm In Estuary English, if you say someone's out of order, you mean they've behaved in an unacceptable way. E.g. "When he spilt my pint, that was out of order. But when he refused to pay for it, that was bang out of order."