I didn't feel like going though 20 or more pages of bickering.....could anyone explain to me how it went from a young mom thread to an abortion rights thread? Isn't that kind of topic supposed to be in the politics board?
ehhh, theres always people that hate on young moms, it always seems to turn into an abortion thing... I had a guy in school say to me when I was pregnant "are you catholic or do you just no beleive in birth controll" fucker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's all HaHa's fault. Read the first page. Everything starts out nice until Happy says that the dad's vamp off and leave the moms. Then OSF asks if you can blame them. Then me being ignorant as I am, asks OSF to explain his statement. It was all down hill from there.
NO!!! There is to be no bickering on this thread unless it's done by ME! Really though, I started from the last page and looked through about 10 pages of blah blah blah. I didn't feel like reading it anymore after that. I had my first kid when I was 15. I was young, but she's fine, and well taken care of. I wish people can say stuff like this without a dozen different do gooders jumping telling them why they're evil or stupid. Woo, I better cool it, or else someone's gonna come fuss at me. Shh, lets just keep this one between us girls.
It's all gravy I had my little girl when I was 16 (got pregnant at 15) and my lil girl is very much loved... always gets what she wants... has never been beat or neglected! its insane some people think that every child by an unwed young mother will be abused or not taken care of........................................
dave's mother was 15 when she had dave. yeah. the dad did run off. but dave and his mom are very close, though they do get asked quite a lot if they're brother & sister or even dating or married.
I was actually married to my daughter's dad, but didn't work out. He cheated on me when I was in labor with her prematurely (I had pre eclampsia or however you spell it) He also went to jail 2 years ago for supposedly molesting his new wife's 6 yr old son. Needless to say, I'm glad to be rid of him.
somebody asked where were the young dads to go with the young moms somebody started talking about the fathers bouncing somebody said that they could hardly be blamed somebody asked that person to elaborate somebody did somebody opposed...over and over somebody repeatedly brought up abortion...well because somebody has uterus envy somebody said that a man's claim to the child started at birth somebody disagreed......over and over and then, as usual, the men were left alone to beat their own dicks THE END
I am terribly disappointed. Moonshyne, if you want to know what the thread is about, take an hour and read through it. What good explanation can you possibly expect here?
Like I said before, I didn't want to waste an hour reading a post that ended up as the same abortion topic we have in a dozen different forums already. I just wanted to know HOW it came to that. If that's so disappointing to you, then you should REALLY start trying to get out more often.
im a young mother had my daughter when i was 18 then i had my son when i was 21 im 24 now... and the dad(yes both have the same father) is still here.
my baby daddy is back now, has been for about 3 years. my lil girl is 5 now and for about two or three years of her life we never saw him. he was an immature dumb fuck... he grew up a bit and we decided to give it another try and it seems to be working ok this time! I am glad things worked out for the best with us.......
You're telling me! God, I would love to get out more. Unfortunately I have responsibilities that can't be ignored. Regardless, I fail to see how my getting out more would alleviate the disappointment I feel when someone refuses good ideas because there are too many words to read.
hi guys... I just found out the father of my childern is signing away all his parental rights and just found out the other day he had a 7 week old baby. He just found out and decided to run... what a jerk. All of his kids are better off. Turns out though the girl that had the kid is the one he cheated on me with while i was in the hospital having our second son. Serves him right.... hes also waiting for another girl to have a kid so she can have that one tested. If I knew all this before hand I would have left him long before I did. Cheaters always lose out in the end, huh.
Doesn't that fucking SUCK? It's one thing if they're going to cheat, but while you're giving birth to their kid? Ugh, what slime. Like I said, my ex did that, I was sooooo fucking sick they had to induce my labor at 33 weeks, and he had the balls to go out behind the hospital in the bushes and get with my former best friend. My baby ended up weighing less than 4 pounds, and what was dear daddy concerned about? Getting off. He doesn't even come around anymore. It's so horrible to have to see my daughter cry because her daddy won't come see her.
Sorry to hear ladies that the men that are available to you are all such losers. Although I could never be that insensitive to do what you say your baby daddy did Moonshyne, but I personally know of males that could be. A neighbor that I watched grow up, had five children with four women, before his 21st birthday. All that I know is that he was raised mostly by his mother and had little masculine influences during his formative years. He's thirty now, and finally acting like a real man by being responsible. He works way harder than I do, in order to support his wife and two children that he has with her. He also pays support now to his other children. He grew up...on his own. I was raised with both parents, and three older brothers. Many human males reach a period of serious rebellion against everything, around ages 13-16. During this time for my neighbor, I personally witnessed his obvious and many times very loud, disrespect for both of his parents and his current girlfriends. His disrepect was never challenged, and we see what the outcome is. On the other hand, I disrespected my mother only one time while going through my adolescent rebellion. I never did it again because of fear of losing my life. My older brother attacked me, while my father watched and did nothing. And, the one who usually protected me, my mother, also did nothing. That series of events showed me the error of my ways. I learned why men should respect women. Of course, I didn't get it completely, right away. Maturity has brought the greatest enlightenment. I understand now about mutual respect between men and women.
