The real 100+ sex partners thread

This is not a validation thread. Mimimi is it ok, society is so prejudiced mimimi, look at me I'm so normal mimimi, look at me I was a little slut and now I've finally settled down mimimi, look at me vanillas I'm so special for having more fun than you mimimi. No. This is for people who've had over 100+ people and have gone beyond needing validation from the vanillas for it. People who have had less than 100+ partners can shut their trap. I couldn't give less of a fuck what you think.

So, my fellow sexually experienced people:

How many partners have you been with?
Is it an estimate or did you keep track?
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting?
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have?
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle?
How have you met most of your partners?
What is your sexual orientation?
How old are you?
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs?
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)?
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes?
Do you have children?
Are you low, middle, or upper income?
What are you politically?
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy?
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex?
What was the best sex you've ever had?
How was the worst sex you've ever had?
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced?
Do you prefer less experienced people or more?
What do you look for in a partner?
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced?
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced?
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol.
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life?
Would you die if you had to be monogamous?
What`s your favorite sex act?
Are you sexy as fuck?

 

I`ll start.

How many partners have you been with? I`d say just over a hundred.
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? The first.
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? At 22.
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? No. My sexual experience may be the single most important thing in my life. But I did pay the price for it in 15 or so bad experiences.
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? Yes. The going gets tough. I feel very isolated.
How have you met most of your partners? In my late 20s, I picked up approximately 25 chicks at bars. I was on my way to becoming a little bit of a PUA. Then, I stopped drinking, decided the whole pick up thing was too expensive and humiliating, and decided to pay for sex directly rather than indirectly.
What is your sexual orientation? bicurious
How old are you? 35
Are you a swinger, BDSM, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? I`m a john. I am looking into become a bull (guy who fucks other men`s wives with their approval) because that way I don`t have to deal with women, which I have no patience for.
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? No.
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? Yes on both counts. I wish I could have open relationships.
Do you have children? No.
Are you low, middle, or upper income? Middle.
What are you politically? Libertarian.
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? Condoms for penetration. I have slipped a bunch of times. I would be happy to do it like in porn, simply having my partner and I share tests in spite of being mindful of the risks.
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? Yes. I have gone into very very hairy parts of town in different cities, states, and countries cruising for sex. I`m positively not scared of violence despite having been a victim of it multiple times.
What was the best sex you've ever had? Hmmm. Hard to say. The threesome I had was intense. Then I had about 3 chicks who were just off the hook.
How was the worst sex you've ever had? Hookers who baited and switched. Or, women with foul smells, or unattractive.
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? Anything under 30+ is glaringly obvious.
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? More experienced without a shadow of a doubt.
What do you look for in a partner? Pay your own bills, give me my space, and take some initiative. If those are in place, you couldn`t go wrong with me.
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? I discovered I was bi, and that I like anal stimulation. Also, I discovered just how much I like eating pussy, sucking toes, and light BDSM.
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? In a word, I feel ready to go to my grave knowing that I`ve lived life to the fullest.
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. Around 80+. I looked back and realized that all of my "I wishes" had become "I did its". Nowadays, talking to vanillas is like being outside the Matrix.
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? It`s not the only thing by a long shot, but it is a top 3 priority.
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? I hope so. But I`m actually fairly monogamous within the first months of a new relationship.
What`s your favorite sex act? Cum in mouth.
Are you sexy as fuck? I`d fuck the shit out of myself.

 

Great.

 

ok I'll follo on :biggrin:

How many partners have you been with? about 110
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? estimate after adding up female partners to 65 some years ago when I got married
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? haven't but not keeping any records
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? no way - bad? - only maybe a few
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? no
How have you met most of your partners? used to be in a tourist guide - that's how I met a lot of the women - the guys? saunas, hook-up sites and chance encounters
What is your sexual orientation? bisexual
How old are you? 61 - so not really a huge average!
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? swinger,bull,john, groups - still hoping to try the rest
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? yes, married (open). she was one of the tourists!
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes?
Do you have children? yes, 2
Are you low, middle, or upper income? middle
What are you politically? centre-left and becoming more left
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? condoms and tests
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? maybe but never any problems
What was the best sex you've ever had? too many good times to pick
How was the worst sex you've ever had? nothing real terrible but a few I wish I hadn't bothered!
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? normally yes
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? don't mind - there's always something to learn - but with guys much prefer more experienced gay lovers.
What do you look for in a partner? good-looking, trim body with nice bits, relaxed, easy-going, loves sex, and willing to try new experiences
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced?
anal, 3s/groups
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced?
not sure - for others to say
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. when I opened up to my wife as bisexual
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life?high priority
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? no but would leave a big desire gap
What`s your favorite sex act? two.... oral and anal
Are you sexy as fuck? that's for others to say....

Simon :sunny:

 

Damn, that's a lot of questions. Perhaps I can answer when I'm in the right mental frame of mind.

I just wanna say I'm glad this thread is starting out on a good note. Hopefully we can have some meaningful discussions without the attention whores crashing in.

 

The surest way to make a thread that's gonna get trolled/derailed is to tell people not to post in it and stfu.

 

Yes. The numbers don't mean anything to me. But the experience does. And I think you really have to have at least around 20 partners to get the experience. After that, the number of people you're with is really insignificant. I guess that's why most people like myself don't even keep count of their partners. Who really cares? I've lived and maximized my experience. To put a number on it I feel almost devalues it.

 

That`s a valid question. No, I don`t like chasing. One of the two reasons I`d rather have sex with hookers than pick up women.

The other reason being variety. So, if you can imagine a diagram with two parabolas: one for my desire for intimacy with a smaller number of partners; and, the other for my desire for a wide variety of partners, you would find them intersecting at some point.

The two or three happiest moments of my life relationship-wise were when the two parabolas met and I was able to satisfy both my need for emotional intimacy and for sexual experimentation.

In the most recent one, I was dating a hooker (without paying for sex) and fucking other hookers on the side (paying) with her knowledge. In addition to the girl I was dating, I was also visiting another hooker (paying) very regularly. I developed feelings for her also. So, I basically had two regular women and approximately a new girl every two or three weeks. This is solid evidence that having sex with a multitude of partners does not annihilate my feelings for long-term partners. In fact, quite the contrary.

Mimicking that period, were the short-lived two months when my ex-"wife" and I got back together, and I was also in a relationship with a platonic friend of mine of 7 years that suddenly turned sexual. I had both their consents.

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I don`t keep count. 100+ is merely an estimate, but sexual variety feels like a natural drive to me. I tend to be monogamous within the first 2 to 3 months of meeting someone I like, but eventually I feel restless and frisky again. Not being able to explore smothers my sexual drive for any long-term partner no matter how compatible.

I should also mention that, in the open relationships I had, casual sex stimulated sex with my long-term partners. At the end of living together with my ex, our sex life was dead. As soon as I was able to move out and fuck a couple of other girls, we fell back in bed and sex was nothing short of scintillating.

My question for you is: Why don`t you answer my questionnaire?

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Edit: If I mention a number, it`s because I feel a ballpark number does reflect quantum leaps in sexual experience and therefore life experience. I literally felt like a different person around 80+. Not because of the number, but because I simply had satisfied all my sexual fantasies with women and had discovered my bicuriosity.

Prior to that, I wasn`t. So, it was a watermark in my life. I do not believe I would have discovered as much about myself with only one partner regardless of how much sex we had.

 

my penis is so beautiful women cum just at the sight of it

 

Agreed. We seem to see eye-to-eye on most things with this topic. And dare I say we even seem to have had many similar experiences. :cheers2:

 

Sex is expressing my lifestyle.

 

figured id start here since ill be surfing around in these parts.

How many partners have you been with?
probably over 70 or so by now

Is it an estimate or did you keep track?
estimated

If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting?
probably after i slept with a prostitute

Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have?
ive had a few "bad" experiences but they were all good to me. dont regret any of it although id say otherwise in public and say the things i did were really bad, but were they really? wasting money is always a bad experience.

Do you sometimes question your lifestyle?
at times but never for more than a few minutes, just a phase

How have you met most of your partners?
through friends and networking

What is your sexual orientation?
been straight but very open minded and have played both ways

How old are you?
24

Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs?
all of the above

Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)?
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes?
in a relationship and just like to talk about this type of stuff and thats why i find myself online. just a girlfriend but although i may sound contradictory being here i do love her and hope to see a future.

Do you have children?
no

Are you low, middle, or upper income?
middle

What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy?
condoms with others and playing it safe, just birth control with the gf

Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex?
im sure there have been times but nothing ever happened to me

What was the best sex you've ever had?
probably on some sort of mind altering substance most of the time, paid a girl to have some fun in my bosses office at work once and she gave me full service and more than i bargained for when she saw what she was working with. (im nothing more than average at the least so im sure she just made me feel that way) i like to have sex in front of people so thats always fun when others join the party.

How was the worst sex you've ever had?
this ridiculously skinny girl who was so bony that it was just plain uncomfortable and painful.

Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced?
yes most of the time but then again when i get them excited with ridiculous antics anything goes.

Do you prefer less experienced people or more?
less actually seems to be better.

What do you look for in a partner?
someone that just understands me mentally and enjoys life and lives for themselves, and wouldnt mind sharing the journey.

What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced?
i cant even remember, i know little by little online while watching porn and discovering new terms like bukkake, dp, pov, all of the "common" stuff now. then you get into some weird shit when your bored or really fucked up and actually dont mind watching something new, thats when your in trouble. eventually its not enough to just watch and fantasize, or even chat online through craigslist, u have to go do it.

How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced?
more open minded, socially active, and just open about everything and questioned societies social norms.

When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol.
very young when i did some of those things you werent supposed to ever talk about, but as i grew realized it was sick. i turned out alright its whatever lol.

How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life?
sadly, very

Would you die if you had to be monogamous?
eh, just very moody

What`s your favorite sex act?
lately its been cheating taboos and whatever weird shit u can come up with when your fucked up. i love the tease, like if my gf were to webcam me after she invited a guy over and fuck him good while i watch or when i come by for dinner i open the door and shes getting pounded. its hard to find loyal open minded girls who would respect the boundaries and yet still hvae fun with that. my gf gets sad if i say i like things like that but its just fantasies that have been pushed as ive been searching for more and old things become normal. eh just ranting on but i guess role playing, and really rough play with others. ive also been open to same sex play but havent had the chance too much =(

Are you sexy as fuck? id say looks wise im average or not even, nothing wrong just nothing special. fuck wise id like to say i bring excitement to the table =)

 

How many partners have you been with? 150+
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? Estimate
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? Around 50
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? Only a few
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? No
How have you met most of your partners? The majority have been escorts
What is your sexual orientation? Hetero
How old are you? 60
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? John
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? Yes; I meet my present GF first time when she was escorting and I had hired her. Previous GFs and wifes have I meet through my political activities.
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? I have a partner and I do not feel empty.
Do you have children? Yes
Are you low, middle, or upper income? Upper
What are you politically? Liberal left
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? For bareback sex I use my experience and choose escorts carefully although I know that there is no 100% safety
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? No
What was the best sex you've ever had? Maybe sex with a Thaigirl at a brothel after first getting a body to body massage.
How was the worst sex you've ever had? With an unengaged and bored hooker, but this was long ago. By experience I learned to avoid these and I am affluent enough to afford quite expensive escorts.
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? Yes
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? I usually prefer more experienced partners and therefore I try to avoid to young escorts. But once in a while it is very exciting to have a sex with a young girl and concentrate on her satisfaction and let my pleasures come second. Young girls who before only have had experience with young inexperienced boys apreciate this very much.
What do you look for in a partner? Intelligence and a good education.
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? I am still much into vanilla sex, but I think I learned to become a better lover and know how to pleasure different women.
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? I think I have become more relaxed and confident in myself and I care much more about other persons pleasure and well-beeing. For example when I first started to meet escorts when I was younger it was more about my sexual satisfaction, but now it as much of the escorts pleasure and most of the time the escorts will have at least one orgasm (some escorts try to avoid orgasms since they "loose control" and I am experienced enough to distinguish a real orgasm from a fake one).
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. Early on
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? It is important to have sex regurlarly
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? No, but I need to have sex almost every day.
What`s your favorite sex act? Bareback sex with the girl riding me and filling her pussy with sperm

 

Hahaha this thread is funny. As if the number of partners you had can actually define you.


No no no my friends, it is all about quality, not quantity. Im sure about 50-60% of your 100 partners were mountain trolls who were an easy pick.

Yes, I enjoy my smaller pool of sex partners. Because they were sexy beautiful caring people. NOT some trash i found on the street or paid for.

 

Guys, thanks for the replies. I`m reading them avidly. Y'all feel like a community to me.

 

How many partners have you been with? 200 - 300
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? It estimé.

my english bad not can répondre plus. (( Désole. ))

 

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