The whole queer movement has tendencies to be excessive… of course it’s a generalization, but even in hetero relationships you can say your preferences… when I say I am not attracted to trans women you get nearly accused of being transphobic… in terms of relationships you don’t have to justify who you find attractive… when I think that a woman is not a lesbian when she has regularly sex with men… it’s also a discrimination… you are what you feel… ok, but I get accused by friends that I am denying my true self because I am married to man… it’s very confusing
