Alice in SC, A quick but firm pinch of the glans (tip) usually triggers the nerves to 're-boot'. Not painfully, but firm. Or so the formal Sexologists have found.
I recommend him use a powerful vibrator and orgasm with it and then still use it after he ejaculated for a bit until he goes numb. Then after 15 minutes or so, he will has longer in round two, because he will be desensitized.
Here's more info on my last post. I can last hours this way. It involves using more powerful stimulation than what a vagina would provide. Before sex, have him masturbate with a Fleshlight or powerful vibrator such as a wand vibrator. He can ejaculated 2 or 3 times and can stimulate afterward ejaculating on his flaccid penis for extra temporary desensitization. Each subsequent ejaculatory orgasm generally takes more stimulation than last ejaculatory orgasm to occur. If I'm on my 10th+ ejaculatory in a short period of time, with many of these forced out with vibrators, I can perform without stopping for hours. This concept is similar to the old "masterbating before sex make you last long." It is unique in that this method requires that the stimulation be greater than that which a vagina will provide and incorporates sex toys to accomplish this. This concept is also similar to using numbing agents to last longer in bed, but it works a lot better than numbing agents for me
Change positions a few times. Missionary, throw in some light oral (she loves the taste of herself on my cock), cowgirl, more oral for both, and then the finale!
Maybe, maybe not. There had been times squeezing triggered my orgasm. And there had been times when I was so close and so stimulated it stayed close to ejaculation it kept me on a short fuse to reach orgasm. Distracting too much can backfire if too much in my case. Unfortunately.
The formal sexologists who study such, recommend a quick, short squeeze of the glans (head). Not the base.
I totally agree. Long and deep strokes or wife on top makes me cum quicker . So I keep those till my wife is ready to climax.