Quite a few threads about the joy of giving it... but who likes getting it, too and I don't mean from women - that's too easy, fellas. One of the things I ran into - and with the guy I've been mentoring - was him complaining about his FWB not wanting to use his dick and like a man is supposed to - and that included the FWB getting his dick sucked... which, apparently, the guy was not a fan of because (1) he had some issues with the size of his cock and how it looked and (2) he was a submissive bottom. This was the first time I heard of such a creature but being on forums, wow, there are a lot of guys who are voracious cocksuckers... but who aren't of a mind to be sucked off in return. I love to give head... and I love to get it; I grew up with the mutual satisfaction of sucking and being sucked and how much sense it made... until the rise of submissive cocksucking bottoms. If you don't like getting head, why not? And this isn't just for the fellas so if there are ladies who don't like to get head, well, share the tea.
I want to better understand the guys who say that it's better to give than receive since I learned that it's better to give and receive...
I love it. I have a serious oral fixation. Watching someone give me head just increases my pleasure while receiving. It's one reason why I want to experience it from the other side. I also can't get enough of giving women head. I take great pleasure in burying my face in their crotch..
I am also orally fixated because I love giving head. I'd prefer to not go too long without it. I feel a sense of euphoria which may seem strange to some... I enjoy giving pleasure to him, but my body and mind respond quite significantly while doing this And even afterward, I am happy with the lingering memory of what I'd just done. I like getting head - but as odd as this may sound, I enjoy giving head more. There is rarely a time when swapping head is bad. It just feels so good. I think knowing how good it feels is another reason I enjoy giving it as much (or more) than getting it. I have also discovered I lean toward submissiveness, too - which is a whole nuther topic.
I don't know why you said "...but as odd as this may sound..." because it's not odd. It's just that in an era where there are a lot of submissive male cocksuckers who prefer zero reciprocation, well, guys like me - and guys who grew up giving and receiving because it made sense to - try to understand what's up if you don't like to get head... or is it just not liking to get head from guys? This gives me a bit of food for thought...
I just figure it sounds odd to a reader - I don't think it is odd at all... most guys would agree that getting their dick sucked is right up there on the top of the list of things we like. I definitely like getting head - doesn't matter if it is a guy or a woman - if they like giving head, I'd like to receive it. It took me a long time to accept that I like giving head. There is a negative connotation to it that played in my mind. We are called a cocksucker - like that's a bad thing. And accepting the fact that I like it - a LOT - took some time. It may be a flashback for me to clarify by writing "as odd as this may sound". Believe me, it isn't odd to me anymore.
Yes, calling me a cocksucker was a good way to get a fight started until one day, a guy called me a cocksucker and I was about to bring some violence to him when I realized that... he was right. I was a cocksucker even if he didn't know that I was. Logic kicked in and said that I can't get mad and violent over being called a cocksucker... when I'm a cocksucker. In high school, the fellas used to give me da bizness something fierce because I ate pussy but I never got offended by it and would point out to them that because I ate at the Y, I was getting pussy that they'd never get since they didn't eat pussy... Which usually shut them the fuck up. But cocksucker? Yeah, I am one - and you say that like it's a bad thing. It's not odd that most guys enjoy giving head than getting it but the question remains valid because we're always talking about giving it and not paying much lip service to getting it...
Because everyone knows that Black guys don't eat pussy. I knew this before I even got to high school and that it's a lie but back then, Black males were being taught that they should not ever put their mouth on a woman's pussy and, believe it or not, my father telling me this is what got me to eat pussy. So my high school peers, at least publicly, would categorically deny that they ate pussy and would fuck with guys like me who did - but I can take it... and I can dish it out.
I've kept in touch with a friend that you might remember from the old ShyBiGuys forum years ago. I can't remember his nickname there - his real name is my business... anyway, he shows up here every now and then. He has been seeing a black man who is very well endowed, and so it is told, most women cannot handle what he's got. So, my friend is a size queen and loves anal sex- he has been shoving stuff up his ass since he was a kid, as I understand it. He would not pass for a woman - he is all male - but he loves anal sex as much as he loves pussy. And for a guy in his 50s, he gets a lot of both. Anyway - my point in this. He told me some things that he was told, growing up in the South, that I never heard about black men - and one of them was they do not eat pussy. I told him that's bullshit. He thought it might be due to more racist stereotypes in the South than I am exposed to up north here... Wish I could remember the other couple of things he mentioned. I guess it's just as well. Seemed preposterous to me at the time.
@thepapasmurph, I have no idea where that piece of bullshit originated and no more than I know where that "All Blacks are homophobic" crap came from. I heard it being repeated from the mouths of many and I realized that both were lies because I wasn't homophobic and eating pussy is the best thing ever. Not only were people buying into these stereotypes, they became something that some Blacks felt they had to live up to - but were they racist? Fuck if I know and I don't much give a fuck because I know it's not the whole truth of things. And you know me; I'll set the record straight in a flat, skinny second.