the end of something great.... or is it?

Well, I just got out of an intense 3 month realtionship. She was the first girl I had dated in about 2 1/2 years. Things moved pretty fast and I can tell that's probably what did us in. She called me the other night to tell me that she wanted to break up. She said she sees no need to even be friends. I am totally heartbroken.
She came into my life at a totally unexpected time and I don't know if either of us were ready for what was about to happen. However, I can't help but feel we had something really special. I had a really good feeling about us....

Anyways, I'm totally shattered that she doesn't even want to stay friends. For some reason tho, I don't feel like anything has really ended. I can just feel that we will cross paths again someday..... Maybe we'll date, maybe we'll just be close friends, but i KNOW that she became part of my life for a reason...

Anyone else ever felt like this?

 

do you think i'm just getting my hopes up?

 

Honestly, yes.

Women have extrordinarily long memories. Something happened in your relationship and now she doesn't even want to have known you. Trying to understand it will only make it worse. If she feels that way, it was never meant to be. Time to let go. Grieve for a little while, then move on. Youre 25. You'll find someone else.

 

I think a "special" person will be honest with you. If she did not even want to be friends, she is playing some kind of a game. She probably knew you were into her, but nevertheless, she imposed this game on you. I had several break ups initiated by me , and they were all like: " Look I think.....blah blah.... we can always be friends". The reason I did that was that I knew a guy was into me, and I did not wanna hurt him, so I tried to make things simple and clear, unless , of course, the guy was a total ass****, then I did not wanna ever hear from him again. No games.
StaggerLee917S, steer clear of players.
Move on. Most likely she will start calling you as soon as she finds out you are with someone else. But for know she must be so happy that you are heartbroken. May be I came down a little harsh, but I just cant stand when women play those freaking games with guys.

 

just found out that she's back together with her super-abusive ex this just drives a nail through my heart. I treated her like gold.... this guy wouldn't even think about going out of his way to help her or make her feel good.
Someone needs to have a talk with her about what's important in a relationship....

 

Learn from the experience sweetie, you're worth more, forget her and move on.