There are a couple of ways to look at love and sex. Love can, does, and usually will take time, money, ect, ect. sex can fall in to the same place as love or just be straight out sex for no other reason than to do it. now heres what really pisses me right the fuck off, what happens when you are with someone for a year and sex gets boring and is nothing more than simply getting off and the things you once had fun doing ( this means any thing and not just sex ) get boring. And furthurmore, what in the hell, honestly, do you do when your tottaly out of ideas to make the relationship better? if anyone has any ideas or advice please tell me. much appriciate
you should probably talk to your woman about your fantasy's, if the sex is boring now, do you plan to have a future with this girl, because it will probably only get worse. try talking really dirty to her... find a way to turn her on at the same time turning yourself on to.. watch some porno... if she's not that kind of girl, then uh... tell her that she should be...
it depends how much the relationship means to you and how much you are willing to put into it and then again maybe you were'nt meant for eachother as permanant mates/lovers/etc.
boredom happens, it's part of life. we get bored with everything, eventually (or it seems sometimes). i've been there (8 yrs. with my guy), i'd say u need a lil space, just not 24/7 togetherness. but if u cannot tolerate the person . . uh, hmm, love is weird. if u know u love her, you'll probably get over this feeling - i get the love 'em, hate 'em feeling all the time - do what makes you happy. be open with her, she's your girl, and if she knows you at all, she might understand if you explain how you feel. good luck!
