Hi all, Go with me on this... the point of the post is at the end! My wife is 37, tall, curvy and what we like to call my ‘Apprentice Vixen’. In this early part of her ‘training’, I allow her to have cyber (text only) and phone sex with others, both via Skype. Most often, I’m present during any conversation, both text and phone (she prefers to have me there), sometimes joining in, sometimes not. She doesn’t show herself on cam and she doesn’t send pictures or give any personal information. . Once happy with a text-cyber guy, she’ll offer phone sex (again, via Skype). So, at this time, all she wants is text-based cyber and/or phone sex. My question is.. why is it so difficult to find guys for her to play with in this way? Is it because there’s no more on offer than text/audio? 90% of the guys that show an interest, even though they’re made fully aware of what’s on offer, spend most of the time pestering or demanding (at which point, they’re deleted/blocked). Surely there are guys out there who would be happy for a little text-cyber/phone sex?!
In this early part of her ‘training’, I allow her to have cyber (text only) and phone sex with others, both via Skype. Most often, I’m present during any conversation, both text and phone (she prefers to have me there), sometimes joining in, sometimes not. You allow her? Maybe she isn't as into it as you think, and it comes over? Who is she doing this for, if you set all the rules? What do you expect from these sites, a guy to say, " hello dear, how are you today?" Tsk!
Hi, i'm the wife/Vixen, that is the whole point fo me being a Vixen, i surrender to my husband/Stag, not because he wants me to but its what I want for me. He allows me because thats how we have decided things to be all things/rules have been discussed between us and decided together, I dont have to justify myself nor does my husband, but im allowed my opinion in response to your reply. No we dont expect a "hello dear" response and we understand its not everyone's cup of tea, but its ours, and it suits us. So no Tsk, I'm happy, he's happy and that makes a happy contented 'us'.
yeah, what's the point? these days if you watch late night cable, when they would have shown commercials for phone sex lines back in the day, now they show commercials for cam girls. i don't think the phone sex lines even exist anymore. because phone sex is shitty compared to what else is readily available.
Well, I guess the point is, that some people enjoy it. She has several 'keepers' that keep coming back for more, so obviously some people don't think it's shitty. She's not comfortable camming yet, nor sending pics.. but there are obviously guys out there who are happy with that, and the possibility of what may come later. That's where we go 'harvesting' for these guys (which she 'pesters' me for in a fun, sexy way!) to get them to Skype. She loves the thought and anticipation that some of them will become physical sex partners in the future. As per my original post though, I believed there would be more takers.. or rather, more suitable takers.
So no one has yet seen her? I figure both are you! And your a troll! But that's my opinion! You think about control! But you haven't got it! Lol
Both are not him at all, hes male im female. I think its personal preference and what works for us to others is always going to be a big jump from one to another, cam girls obv want that from the outset, i want to work up to things, that is my choice and mine alone... It's what we like.
Oh dear.. whatever shall I do?? The amount of sleep I'm going to lose just doesn't bear thinking about! Oh wait.. wait.. no... I'm over it. Phew!
I actually like the idea. For me the picture is not that important (even though I LOVE sharing pics). I really like the stag/vixen scenario though where she gets trained by the dominant hubby. Too bad it was such a long time ago!
