Bad is a relative word. Hardships are there for us all.... however unfair they might seem.....they are there to help open our eyes towards the good things in life. ying yang so to speak
lol. that's what i was gonna say. there's also people who don't change their situation or really enjoy the agony. or they're just better at bitching about their shit than other people who have just as much awful shit happen to them.
Some people deep down don't really want to change their situation. They keep making the same mistakes over and over. Maybe they want the situation to change but they are not willing to do anything about it to change. Also depends on what we are talking about. What are we talking about? What kinds of "bad" things are happening?