Taking wife to nudist clubs

I have mentioned this before on this site, and others, about men taking their wives to nudist gatherings because they like for other men to see them naked.

I have always been slammed by Members of the Naturist Establishment who call me some kind of Deviant. But I believe their motivation is to shut me up because I am telling the very inconvenient truth that they want to keep very secret.

I have over the past thirty years, talked with about a hundred other nudist husbands, on this issue, and I still believe I am right in asserting that most nudist husbands do want other men to look at their wives' naked bodies.

I would like to hear from some men who have had "real" experience, and not from those who are merely outraged by someone who presents a different point of view.

I would prefer to discuss this through "private messages" but if someone wants to stay in the open forum, I will discuss it there too.

Call me "The Voice of Experience"

 

Well, how does she feel about it? If she's cool with it, it could be ok. But push it too far and you're making her an object for men's pleasure. That's a shitty thing to make your wife.

 

So let me get this straight, you feel that others are judging you for your behavior (and rightfully so, by the way) and figure that the best way around it is to ascribe the same behavior to everyone else?

Smooth move there buddy, smooth move.

You have a problem. You objectify women, and refuse to see it as an issue. It is no surprise that people that do not have this issue consider you a deviant.

 

I'm not sure a 23-year-old woman, probably unmarried, is able to judge how a husband might feel, about ANY issue. You are welcome to your opinions, Alex, but they don't carry much weight with me, because you do not seem to be Authoratative.

But keep going to that psychology class. You might learn something useful.

 

Honey, I don't need to be married to recognize an objectifier and a pervert

Hell, you practically wear it on your sleeve

 

you can always post pics here

 

I've been to nude beaches, but never since I got married

if I went again, and took her with me, others seeing her nude would be only one of the many rewards a trip to nudie beach has...

 

I have mentioned this before on this site, and others, about men taking their wives to nudist gatherings because they like for other men to see them naked.


I actually agree with you about this to a certain extent. It's too bad you have such an attitude.

 

If a guy thinks he is married to a prize catch, I see nothing abnormal or unusual about him taking a little pride in showing her off. If she enjoys the attention and there positive reactions from the other men, there is no real problem at all. What I don't understand here is the great need to talk about it, especially with those who disapprove. Why not just enjoy what you do and be quiet about it?

 

What I have often seen is men who have taken their wife or girlfriend to a nude sauna or beach where it appears that the woman is uncomfortable being there.

 

again where are the pictures... why just take her to the beach, when millions can see her on the net.

 

I don't see a problem either, provided, as you point out, that she genuinely enjoys the attention. I'm sure plenty of women wouldn't.

When I was married, my husband loved showing me off. I readily admit I enjoyed it, too. I never felt put upon or used by it. If I had, I would never have participated and would probably have smacked his ass good besides.

 

Maybe that's what he really wanted all along...

 

Ha! I knew I should have worded that differently ...

 

I don't necessarily see a problem with it but can also see why some naturists might find objection. By saying that you want other men to see your wife naked, you are clearly introducing an element of sexuality into what is typically advertised as a non-sexual activity. I'm no expert on the subject but based on my own experiences with naturism and what I've seen/heard from other naturists, it is kind of upsetting the apple cart by mixing sex and outdoors nudity. Not saying that naturists are asexual by any stretch, but naturists are generally trying to stay on the non-sexual side of the fence when engaging in such activities. The idea that someone is getting a charge out of someone else seeing his wife nude is getting away from the point of it. Not unhealthy on the sexual side of things, IMO, but not naturism.

 

Call it naturism or whatever you want, but you can't prevent a group of naked people from thinking about sex. It is going to happen.

 

Ha. You can't even prevent a group of clothed people from thinking about sex.

 

You are right- naturism has enough problems being accepted as it is, and any overt sexual behaviour only makes it more difficult. Gawkers and others parading up and down nude beaches or behaving like a dog on heat are generally not welcome by those who call themselves naturists.

 

That's why there are private nudist clubs and so on, where they can set their own rules regarding sexual activies, which is their perogative if they wish.

 

Exactly.