I have always considered myself straight even during a threesome and a minor "interlude" with a friend of mine. It's easier to be straight then veer off to the edge. When I look at attractive women I tell myself that all women appreciate beauty, even when I occasionally fantasize about other women. However besides the minor experimentation as a teenager, I have been relatively straight. I like guys. They're weird and funny with mannerisms completely different from my own. They're hard and complicated and I find myself almost like a scientist, poking and probing in hopes to figure them out. Women are less complicated and not quite so funny but their comfortable and soft, sometimes too soft. After a couple of rocky straight relationships, I'm even more curious about this "quirk". However I have no idea what to do. I don't have any gay or bi-sexual friends and in a couple of months I'll be moving to a tiny conservative town in Iowa. I feel like my timing is way off. It may sound like a stupid question but how does one pursue a gay relationship with no prior gay or bi-sexual connections? How does someone start from scratch?