Super tight anus

I've had anal sex several times since the age of 18 (am now 23) and haven't had anal sex or used a sex toy for nearly 2.5 years. My ass is super tight and it hurts even when I finger myself or try to use a vibrator.

How can I "loosen" my anus? Any tips or tricks please?

 

I started small and worked my way up over the years. Deal with the pain, insert slowly and use lube

 

Thank you. What size vibrator would you recommend to start with?

 

I don't like vibrators. You might but not me. The svakom butt plug is short and thin. I never used it but the wife loved the vibration for clit play. It was a hard plastic with a thin rubber sleeve that made it very slick with lube

 

Oh right, I see. I will do some research, cheers.