Suicide & Pain

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by catstevens, Jul 4, 2005.

  1. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    Whenever, I find this word '' suicide'', in an Article, movie, news…etc. I think in silence for a while . Why did that person suicide? And when I get some few information about the reason, I start to think in silence for another while , thinking about that person who suicided , what the quantity of pain that reached to ? What the quantity of tears he shed?


    The important question: did he have someone to listen to him, to trust in? Did he have someone to hug when he needed that? Did he have somebody to share him his feelings?.


    Myself, I was thinking to make my own website to these kind of people, who describe the life as a '' painful ''


    According to my information suicide is prohibited strongly in all the heavenly messages.


    I read a lot about suicides , some of them ………….or let's say the most of them are actually loner or they cannot find someone to understand them. Maybe they don't want to express their feelings to the others because they consider it as a kind of weakness. They can talk about their feelings frankly on the internet; nobody will know who they are?


    *sigh*…, I wrote this thread because I just read about a suicide person. I'm loner so loner, but it's ok to me, but I don't know why when I find out that somebody is loner or sad:


    I cry maybe because I know very well what does loneness mean or because I remember myself and the painful days that I went through

    And I don't want anybody to live the life like that.


    Or I become sad


    Or swim in the sea of thinking and hope him a better life , although I'm loner and want to remain like this, perhaps because I can endure the pain of loneness and sadness, but doubt they can, it's really need a strong power.


    Will you suicide if you think it’s the only way to escape from the pain?


    Share your opinions
     
  2. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    Here is the lyric ( Majik of Majiks ) , a special dedication to all lonesome peple:


    Majik of Majiks


    What kind of power,

    What kind of demon is this
    Who kicks me out in shame,
    With every word he says
    What kind of majik of majiks.
    What kind of war is this,

    That I can't fight no more
    That leaves me weaponless,
    And nails me to the floor
    What kind of power, of powers.

    What kind of man--
    Can make me turn and see
    The way I really am.
    Oh tell me who, oh who?
    Where have my brothers gone,

    Why I don't see them about
    They're all around him now.
    And keeping me out
    What kind of madness, of madness
    "Go on and let him in, he's only asking for
    A simple job to do and nothing more" they said.
    But looking back
    I see this stranger had the key
    To any door he wished, with his eyes I say.
    What kind of majiks, of majiks

    What kind of man--
    Can make me turn and see the way I really am.
    Oh tell me who, oh who?
    "Go on and let him in, he's only asking for
    A simple job to do and nothing more" they said.
    "Go on and let him in."
    "Go on and let him in, he's only asking for
    A simple job to do and nothing more."
    But looking back
    I see this stranger had the key
    To any door


    Yours Sincerely,
    Cat Stevens
     
  3. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    That is not an advice (I know that some members like joking)

    I accept the advice and the counsel from sage people

    Anyway thank you for passing by my thread
     
  4. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    people who kill themselves are dumb..sorry but thats my opinion...
    I knew of two people who killed themselves..why cause they thought they had it rough, and thought their life sucked... Im sorry, but EVERYONE goes through shit.. no ones life is perfect, if it was, there is a reason to kill yourself...
    If we didnt have shit in our lives, then we wouldnt know how to live...
    Im talking about people who are whiney and say that everyone hates them and then they kill themselves.. its sad really that one would take their own life just cause others make them sad.. what a waste...
     
  5. 121

    121 Senior Member

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    My life is perfect, I have a penis.
     
  6. tangela

    tangela Member

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    losers fucking losers..fuckers fags **** whore ****** loving hoes..go kill kill kill kill
     
  7. Obituary~Birthday

    Obituary~Birthday Member

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    pain is part of life,you gotta ride it out
     
  8. Death

    Death Grim Reaper Lifetime Supporter

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    Suicide is for pussies

    unless its an accident. like accidentally banging too much smack or something. then its hardcor

    The only way i see suicide as acceptable is in a euthanasia situation. If that person will never function normally again, then why not. but just cuz your mad cuz your mom wont let you have a a nipple piercing or skip school, then thats dumb
     
  9. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    I loved that comment from you so much
    That's really sad really, they need to understand life more and to talk to sage people, I really loved your post, thank you very much for passing by my thread
     
  10. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    Obituary~Birthday:
    Yes, that's true

    When we feel pain because of something let say because an illness, then we can experience how the sick people feel so our behavior towards them will change for example: we will know how they need someone to talk with them or to visit them in the hospital from time to time to don't feel that they are loneness and forgotten and the like…

    Thank you for passing by my thread and for your polite reply.
     
  11. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    Death :

    Myself, I disagree with you in this, because wonders happen, perhaps suddenly he will cure. And it is unacceptable according to the heavenly messages strongly. (islam, Christianity, Judaism)


    YoursSincerely,
    CatStevens
     
  12. TheGanjaKing

    TheGanjaKing Newbie

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    if you came here for advice, then you deserve what responses you get. Do something about it in life. Get off the computer
     
  13. come_do_drawrings

    come_do_drawrings Jaime

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  14. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    If I came here for advice or not, that's up to me.

    It's Ok to me, I didn't complain

    I don't care about others who comment on me (with negative responses) because I think they are not positive or optimistic )

    sword may hurt you but not the words , especially when it's not true because it doesn't represent you as they claimed, who you really are ( let that be your principle)

    YoursSincerely,

    CatStevens
     
  15. Death

    Death Grim Reaper Lifetime Supporter

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    If youre 95 years old and just had a multiple stroke and youre on a respirator and before that you were bedridden, then its time to die.

    youre telling me that someone like that will all of a sudden wake up like "hey i can do anything"?
     
  16. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    Really thank you for passing by my thread and sharing me your thoughts and feelings.

    I thank you God deeply, I am really so happy because you didn't make that big mistake


    What do you mean by saying selfish exactly?
    Definitely, you are right
    Oh, I am sorry
    But did you look for help from someone. That is the point.
    Thank you again for passing by my thread, but why did you think that it was a bad idea when I decided to post this thread ?

    YoursSincerely,

    CatStevens
     
  17. interval_illusion

    interval_illusion Deceased

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    suicide is serious. people DO do it. i ....arr... ill shut up
     
  18. catstevens

    catstevens Muslim Top To Toe

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    Death :
    I have my opinion and others have their, keep your opinion and I will keep mine , I didn't obligate anybody to anything , I said my opinion and that's it.
    I read few days ago about two persons who woke up from coma after several months. What's wrong with that? There are many of other real stories too. But this is what I remember now. And by the way if the person (who is in the coma), how can you finish his life without a permission from him?? That's really the utter felony & the utter uglyness.

    YoursSincerely,

    CatStevens
     
  19. interval_illusion

    interval_illusion Deceased

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    u like anal rock boy?
     
  20. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    I think the majority of the population has thought about suicide at some point in time, but most are strong enough to not go through with it. I know I thought about it, but my pain doesn't outweigh the pain my death would cause to friends and family.
     
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