Sucking cock was a Logical and Acceptable Choice

Even my wife said that most women in their 70s don't care about sex anymore and many of their husbands were encouraged by wives to try Bi, since most men are horny till they die.My wife and my friends wife both said they were done with sex.My friends wife said we should go downstairs into the family room and take care of each others needs.They didn't care and my friend said he would do it, if I would do it to him. Without a long story, it was the logical choice. It was acceptable to our wives because there were No Bimbos allowed.
Have you pondered the idea and shared your thought with your no sex wife?
It accomplishes a goal with No hastles

 

I think about it all the time. Unfortunately my wife simple can’t wrap her head around how powerful the sex drive is in men and would have no tolerance for me taking care of my needs with another man.

 

I know my sex drive is very strong even though my wife's is zero.The frustration levels are insane so to be able to have a release like your story must be Great.I have often thought about it but never had the opportunity to try.

 

Once my wife had passed, from Cancer, I did try dating a few women and I was usually considered questionable material, with most women that I had met. I was looking for a friend and a possible new life companion, but most said that I just not ready to get pass my wife’s death, along with other different comments.
So, I had to consider all my options, for something that I knew that I needed, including my sexual needs along with how powerful my sex drive was and self- masturbation just did not do anything for me. I need to have a human friendship. Since there are only two genders, I chose the male. I often had no problem making new friends and since I am also male, I should be able to find another male to suck my cock and after awhile I was amazed how men were available. After a brief period time of just receiving several blowjob, I did learn a lot about how easy and how some men like to suck another man’s cock.
So, I asked a few other men what they like about sucking another mans cock. I was surprised at some of the answers. So I knew and found out, that it very easy for me to replicate with another male, after he had completed sucked my cock, it was only logical and a acceptable for me to suck cock. After several years I had passed, and now I had master the art of sucking another mans cock and I did make a few good friends. Also I found joys and comfort of feminine cross dressing.

 

My man and I have been sucking each other off regularly for the past 13 years. Our wives are aware that we do so and have encouraged us to do so being they are not wanting to suck our cocks as often as we want them sucked. For about 9 years he and I were doing so very discretely until the day his wife caught us 69 sucking each other. Our wives have accepted that their husbands enjoy sucking each other's cocks from time to time. I suspect not many women would be as supportive as our wives are. We both consider ourselves very lucky to have them as our wives.

 

VERY lucky for sure!

 

Yepp, you both are very lucky! But we are glad you share your stories with those of us who aren't!

 

In my studies regarding why men have sex with each other, I learned that cocksucking is one of the main entry points and is deemed to be both logical and acceptable over having anal sex the first time out of the gate. One of the other entry points, mutual masturbation, has often led to guys deciding that sucking the dick is better than jerking on it and, personally, I can't just jerk a guy off without wanting to get him in my mouth. I have thought that cocksucking is seen as being "less gay" and I personally don't know a guy who has never wondered what it's like to suck a dick or to be sucked by a guy - and even if they have no intention or motivation to find out.

And, yeah, taking it in your mouth hurts a lot less than taking it in your ass. It can be done almost anywhere; it generally doesn't take a whole lot of time; the only preparation needed is to make sure your junk is clean, smelling half-way decent and healthy; being in a spontaneous moment is a different critter but for many men, sucking cock is both logical and acceptable over anything else two guys can do.

 

Yep. I've sucked off quite a few married men, and they all like how easy it is. Show up, get hard, get sucked off, cum in my mouth, leave. No hand wringing, no drama, just pleasure. A good number didn't reciprocate, but that's fine by me. I always host, so that makes things just that much easier.

 

Yes - it doesn't get any easier than that. No begging, no having to give something to get something, or having to listen to women complain about what they don't like about sucking dick, blah, blah, blah. And it's not "as gay" as you think it is and, oh, yeah: I won't tell if you won't, okay? Yeah, I've had guys who were unable to reciprocate and, well, it can be like that but, uh-huh - I love having my dick sucked, too. Try it - you're gonna like it!

 

This reasoning was the very reason the married guys I'd suck off regularly wanted another guy to suck their cock. They knew that guys that suck cock do so because they enjoy doing it. Who wants someone sucking their cock that doesn't enjoy it?

 

Exactly. If other guys didn't know anything else, they knew there were guys who would and could suck cock and like few women would want to do and, yes, including swallowing cum and then without complaining and you don't have to suck cock to get one of these guys to suck yours. Then consider that some guys are of a mind that if they're not sucking dick, it's not really gay or, if they do, if they don't swallow cum, it's not gay and, my, my, the things we tell ourselves to justify what we do, right? Then consider that among some married men, getting into a 69 with a guy isn't considered to be cheating because it's not sex with a woman - it's just one of those guy things that can happen and doesn't really mean anything as far as the relationship is concerned (unless she's given up on having sex).

Sucking cock... just makes sense. A bit more involved than mutual masturbation and definitely not as involved as fucking. It's the #1 thing for guys to do for their first time.

 

If we could do it to ourselves easier, we wouldn't have to ask. After doing it to myself, decades ago, it seemed pretty cool and wasnt so taboo, since my wife flipped when she saw me do it. Since those days are long gone, a mutual bj seemed like a good idea. Even she was up for the idea and proposed I do it with a friend. He would love the opportunity to suck my cock, so why not? Reciprocating seemed like the polite thing to do.

 

i have been regularly seeing a married guy for over 5 years .. we met at a business function .. we meet for a coffee and chat ..we end up somewhere and most the time have been just sucking his cock ( which i enjoy ).. he is not having sex with his wife...we often see each other out with our wife's as we are local and always think to myself im satisfying her husband for her.
It is a logical and acceptable choice that I'm happy with .. i have a small number of other regulars that i enjoy and my desires are met

 

that’s pretty much spot on. I’m married….absolutely zero sex and I had oral sex with a guy. I justified it as hey it’s something I’ve always wanted to try and the wife has no desire so why not. I’ve don’t given up on the whole gay/not gay thing. I don’t care anymore. I don’t want to date a guy, live with a guy or have any sort of romantic relationship with a guy. I just want to occasionally have sex with a guy. It’s not denial, it’s knowing what I want.

 

I remember (years ago) sitting and talking to a guy about a lot of nothing when he turned, looked at me and asked, "Why do I have this urge to suck your dick?" I allowed that I didn't know why and more so when I was sure he was very straight. He then asked, "Why does sucking your dick make all the sense in the world?" and... I had no answer for him even though being an active cocksucker for as long as I'd been, of course, it made perfectly good sense to me. Well, we went inside and we both got our dicks sucked and balls emptied (twice) and he'd left me pondering why sucking dick makes sense to men who aren't bi or gay - but when they want sex with guy, this is the thing they want to do. I knew that some guys have wondered what it's like to suck dick because they watched a girl/woman doing it but guys who were curious, well, they made sense.

But not those guys who never gave a thought about sex with men but now they are thinking about it and... sucking dick is both logical and acceptable.

 

I know that consensual sex is logical and acceptable, because my best partners and I feel good about the experience. The only times that sex does not feel acceptable is when a person does not feel good about the experience.

Sex between others and me is our business. When we feel good about it, our mutual respect continues long after orgasm.

 

A guy I knew had a bad breakup with a woman and he's telling me about it and he's deeply hurt by it. He's done talking about it and stands up to leave so I stand up as well; he gives me a hug and thanks me for listening to him... and gives my crotch a squeeze. Next thing I know, he's got me in his mouth and he's going for it like tomorrow will never come but I'm about to; he doesn't swallow my cum but gives himself a facial... then asks me why and how him doing that made sense. And, no, when he went to get me out and knelt to start sucking me, I wasn't going to stop him or ask him what he was doing since it was kinda obvious...

But l didn't have an answer to that. Twenty or more years later, I still don't know why it makes sense to go from not being a cocksucker to being one and enjoying the fuck out of it. There's a logic involved that I can't grasp, and it makes me cray-cray because I should know the answer - but I don't.

 

I wish you lived in my little town of 3,500..

downside: been here 32 years, raised family, hundreds of people know me.. town is maybe 4 mi x 1.5 miles

upside: "honey, I'm gonna go for a hike/fishing/to hardware store/whatever" and spend a few hours swapping fluids..

 

You'd love my cock. It is the perfect size for sucking. Not too big, not too little. Nicely defined mushroom that feels amazing sliding past your lips and across your tongue. The best part? I cum like Peter North. Very powerful orgasm and my cum is smooth and slippery.