Subtle ideas to progress with sharing wife

I've been working on trying to share my wife for years. It's taken a long time to get to the stage where we can role-play it.
During role-play, she gets right into it. Often asks leading questions which shows she does have an interest in it.
When we've talked about it after, she has said she thinks it's nice that I want her shared and pleased. She's also said she could never do it in real life. She didn't specifically say why and I didn't want to push it at that time.
Obviously I respect that she may never end up doing it and I'm happy with the roleplay if that's the case.
What im trying to think of is a subtle way to test an advance on the roleplay? Obviously it's at a delicate point and I don't want to push it so just a small step is needed.
Any help is greatly appreciated

 

Casual talk and timing is everything. And it has to be her idea. Never ever push her. Take her to some lifestyle events or lifestyle nude resort. Get her exposed to it in real life. Also, Both of you need to read tone Ethical Slut. It pulls the lid off consenual non monogamy, in a good way.

 

I am curious as to what type of wife sharing are you contemplating. Do you want her to be a hot wife where she meets one on one with someone, or are you talking about MFM threesomes? I’ve had both of those fantasy scenarios for as long as I can remember, and was fortunate enough to experience both.
With my now ex-wife, it took a little more effort to convince her that the idea of her taking a lover turned me on. “why would you want to share me? is it because you want to have sex with another woman?” I reassured her that I had no desire for another woman. So anyway, we started talking about it more, and started reading hot wife articles together, and watched a couple of well done porn videos about a hot wife, which pretty much reflected our situation. I could have written the script. Like you, we started role-playing and it really seemed to turn her on, but once we were done, she would comment that she didn’t think she could do it. so I would drop it for a little while, but then we would do it again. She eventually stopped commenting that she didn’t think she could do it. A good sign? The game changer was one day. She came home from the gym with a little more spring in her step, and told me that one of the trainers had been flirting with her, and asked her to have lunch with him, and what did I think? Almost too enthusiastically I gave my blessing. so one lunch date lead to a couple more at his house, and things progressed to where she was having sex with him, and that continued for about six months, probably biweekly. I wanted to watch, but he said that was off the table. He eventually broke it off with her.
With my current wife, it was much different. Very soon in our relationship, we had the usual get to know each other pillow talk. We shared our fantasies, and again to question of why would you want to share me, and was it because I wanted another woman? After enough reassurance that it was not the case, I just thought that the idea of me another guy pleasing her was pretty hot. She eventually confessed that the thought of her being the center of attention of two men was a fantasy of hers. so we started reading stories, role-playing, and watching some tasteful MFM porn. I think the tipping point was one night while role-playing during a DP session with one of her toys, I commented that I’ll bet a real cock would feel much better. She blurred out “then find me one!“ as luck would have it, a good college buddy was going to be coming to town to visit family. She was interested in him, and he was interested in her. so here we are after less than a year and a half of being together, having an incredible MFM! so good that she wanted to do it again the following evening. a couple months later we got married, and a couple months later we had a couple more MFMs. All were hot!
Just prepare yourself for the emotional roller coaster of watching your wife really enjoying having sex with another guy.
I didn’t mean to hijack your thread, but when these memories come flooding back……

 

We talked about it for over a year, before she broke the ice. But after that she didn't hesitate. Best thing to do is get out and let her be around others.

 

That very similar to us as well.Now, My wife actually looks forward our swapping with other couples.

 

Same here we had trouble finding couples we both agreed on. She done most of the arrangements. She took the attitude, that I was happy with any woman. true to a point. But we found a few couples, One couple we meet several times a years until we were in our 50's and started in our 20's. So we had lots of fun.