A single mum is like a used car. I'm unsure if I have the time and patience or money to get the longevity out of somebody else's problem.
I think you said she's a CNA, which is not a nurse. That can be a hard job too, just not as much money. Idk, Tinder has a reputation as being kind of a hook-up thing. Sounds like LTR's might be more your thing
That tends to work out better for the shy guy type A CNA is not a nurse. It's a Certified Nurse's Aid, that's what CNA stands for. They're not RN's