Stuck in a love triangle here...

I'm kind of stuck in a difficult relationship with this girl that i met online in 2017 and we started dating.
she flirted with me and i flirted with her, she was really attracted to me, so she told me what her kik messenger was, and i messaged her, and we started to talk more and more every day on there, she has sent me pics of herself, but the thing is..i don't know if they're actually real, and that she's who she says she is.
she has a job (forgot where she works) and no kids.
i have tried and tried to get her to talk to me on video chat or at least call me, if she's really who she claims.
but she would make excuses saying that she will when she get a webcam, and months and months have passed already, and STILL no webcam, HP laptops that have built-in webcams, aren't really that expensive, unless you prefer higher specifications when it comes to computers, mine was, but i got it for a good deal.
i have showed my best friend that i met on PSN, a picture of her, and he somehow found her photo in google images, by typing something like "Black girl braid styles" or "Black girl hairstyles" in google's image search.
it was something like that, i really don't know what he typed in, but he told me that he think she's a catfish.
i have been suspicious of kesha since the first day i met her, and you would have thought that she would have facetimed me a long time ago, to PROVE that she's real and not a catfish, considering that i'm supposedly her "boyfriend" and yet, she works and works, and still not have an iPhone so she could facetime me.
i am madly in LOVE with someone who i haven't even SEEN on camera before, and we've dated for a long time, yes, i have strong feelings for kesha, and it's hard to get rid of them, she says she really loves me all, but if she does, why hasn't she video chatted me a long time ago? and not have me keep asking her when are we gonna talk on camera, because i find that really annoying and it frustrates me.
so two days ago, i decided to make a tinder account, looking for a better relationship with someone who will actually facetime me and not keep me waiting for it to happen.
so, after i have made a tinder account, a day or two later, this girl who's named sierra, has matched with me, who's really beautiful and i have told her that, and she said that i'm not too bad myself.
we had a small conversation on tinder, i had made one last reply to her, she didn't reply until like two hours later and she said that she had drifted off to sleep and that she was sorry, so she gave me her number to text her, and i did, then we started texting, she then mentioned that she were gonna facetime me in like 5 minutes (She was fast) and asked if it was okay with me, and i was like yeah, so i told her i was a little shy, and she didn't mind it at all, we talked on facetime twice in a row, (All i did was smile a lot and laugh)
i can't control my smiling, but the laughing i can, it's just that i couldn't believe that a beautiful women like HER, would actually talk to me, so i found myself smiling and laughing too much when speaking to her (I hated i did that)
sierra is a CNA, she has an amazing job, and she does piercings, we're the same age,
also an aries like me, but her birthday is in April and mines is in march.
i have had some interesting convos with sierra, i really loved them, i told her that, she appreciated that.
and i could seriously ask for nothing more than a women who is appreciative on things you do or say to them, point is, is that I'm falling in love with sierra, when i am currently in a relationship with kesha, who has never even video chatted me, and besides, she lives in virginia, (She's far from me)
whereas sierra isn't, sierra lives close to me, she's in temple university. (that's on her tinder)
and it said that she was 2 miles away from me, i forgot to mention that sierra has four kids and her own house, she loves singing and dancing, in which i do too.
we also have other things in common as well, soo..i don't know what to do here at this point.
i wanted to pursue a happy relationship with kesha, and she knows that, but how can i trust her when she hasn't proven to me that she's who she says she is, such as facetiming me (i don't trust voice calls)
and i obviously don't trust photos either, unless she takes a picture holding up a white piece of paper with my name written on it, and that way i would believe her, but i'd still would want to talk to her face to face on facetime, i'm pretty sure you guys and females, would feel the same way here as i do.
in other words here, i can't drop the feelings i have for kesha, but what if she's actually real and NOT a catfish? because if so, i would feel really bad for cheating on her with sierra. (i hate cheaters with a passion)
and i am not one to cheat, so on that note, what would i tell sierra, if i finally get a video chat with kesha, i would have to stick with kesha, but that would be hard seeing as though i really like sierra and that i am falling for her, but sierra probably doesn't know that i am.
HELP??

 

dude..there is no kesha….....you are being conned...

 

falling in love with a photo and some text is very whack..

 

I would be weary, just because of the name. It sounds like a catfish name, well both do.

Go find yourself a Mary or a Margaret or an Amanda... chicks ain't gone lie about that.

 

no you aren't....delusional yes...relationship no unless you count conner-connee

 

I hope that’s true because then I could pursue my relationship with Sierra, and I wouldn’t have to worry about another girl, because the last thing i need is for Sierra to stop talking to me because im already in a relationship, and I would hate that.

 

Exactly.

 

Not to sound rude, but, did you read everything i said in my post?

 

So you’re saying she’s an absolute fake?

 

If you started talking to her in 2017 and it is now 2019 and you cant even geta video chat out of her..yes, she is fake

 

Enough said, but Sierra actually video chatted me, that tells me I should choose her over kesha, who obviously hasn’t video chatted me.

 

Bits and pieces of it, yes.

 

even if kesha was real (she's not), she obviously has something to hide and has no intention of having an actual relationship.

 

I've video chatted with sierra, not kesha.

 

I've told her that before, but she always tries to throw everything on me.
if she didn't have anything to hide, why not facetime me? my point exactly.

 

I remember a day when people met in public

 

I don't know any good advice. I can tell you my story though. At one point I was seeing somebody on the side and my gf didn't know. Eventually I really regretted not being faithful. So if your story (you can tell here I didn't read...) involves fidelity I would stress that you should definitely pick only one woman to be loyal to.

 

yep, and it should definitely be the one that's actually a woman.

 

Exactly

 

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