Strange situation

Good evening all! I am 18 year old boy, stuck with a strange problem. I am still virgin because i had no luck with girls yet. I really love them, they are increadible creatures. But about 2 years ago i started to realise that i like men, but not themselves - only their cock. So i tried to play with my hole, watched porn.
The problem is that i really want to feel some hard cock in my ass but i am scared that if i will try that, i will like it too much and i will addict to that.
Just i do not know what to do, this problem is in my head always except the period of time after i jerk off. But then it comes back to my head.
What u guys would advise?

Thank you.

 

aren't you afraid liking masturbation too much and 'addicting to it'?

 

the problem is that i am already "addicted" to that and i am trying to quit it. but when i do not jerk off, this problem about cocks comes to head ))

 

if you're only attracted to something in your ass then just buy a dildo or find a chick who will fuck you with a strap on? or maybe just try banging a dude and see if you like it.

 

^^ what he said. Lots of straight guys like getting anal. You don't sound anything gay or bi careful if you keep this up you'll find yourself with HOCD one day

 

You want to recognize the fact that some things in life come as they are. A cock comes with a dude attached to it. If you like the cock you have got to accept the fact that you have to like the dude who owns it, to a degree.

Will you get addicted? Most likely not. Like with all the other things in life, you have got to learn how to control your cravings. You draw a line somewhere, and stick with it.

I would not be placing too high a hope in the strap-on dildo substitute. If dildos really worked no bottom would be bothering to cruise for tops, waste time and money. Every top I know would purchase a flashlight and save himself some mighty effort. Like with all other substitutes, they work for some time when the real thing is not available for whatever the reason may be.

Try to think about the feelings of a female who knows that her man likes a dildo up his ass. A woman does not have to be a rocket scientist to figure out that sooner rather than later, her man will go and try the real thing. Which is most likely going to compromise the monogamous nature of their relationship. Sure, there are women out there who are happy with such arrangements. But they too, may want something else in return. So, you are about to open another can of worms...

I know quite a few men who are completely uninterested in entering into any kind of emotional relationship with other men. They simply want sex. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this.

KD

 

puh-leese... Would you stop confusing the poor lad even more?! You have a really simplistic view of how this works.

are you fucking serious?! So does that mean lesbians are really just quietly biding their time till they find the right guy with the perfect dick for them? Maybe they wanna rent-to-own? Good grief! Sometimes penetration is just that, pleasurable penetration in and of itself and doesn't require a dude attached. Hell, often the dude is precisely the last thing you want involved.

you make it sound like there are no markets of women who fantasize about fucking their men with a dildos. Straight dudes aren't going to stray for ass plowing from random guys when they have A GIRL at home ready, willing, & able to do it as long and hard as he wants. Ever heard the phrase "best of both worlds"?

and I know guys who don't want to touch or be touched by another man, but can't get enough penetrating stimuli. Like I said, your view is too oversimplified.

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GO AND FUCk A PROSTITUTE . you will really like her hole . give it a try

 

If you only want a cock why not buy a Jeff Stryker realistic dildo - check it out on the internet - really lifelike - BIG too

 

......:rofl:



Cheers Glen.

 

so guys is it better to give the urge a go or to stop this somehow??

 

I think the username alone is enough to all tell us what we need to know

Out of all the names you could have picked, you picked 'JuicyHole'......and you are on hear asking if you should fight these urges, seriously?

 

Better Question: Is there some reason why you'd want to deny yourself the experience? Are you like spoken for or trying to get with a female currently? If not, why pass on it?

 

Sexual exploration doesn't make you gay, it is okay to do a bit of anal, find a girl that will strap on and plow you, if it is just the penis that is the obsession what would be the difference. If you are only interested in flesh and blood find a guy thatthat will bang you and let him know that this is just experimentation. If you like it you like it, that is all there is to it.

 

Ohh finally i bought a dildo and tried it. But i didn't like it at all, there was no pleasure.
But what is making me angry now is that the desire comes back and i want a cock again...
What to do...

 

Sex toys suck. Just get a guy to nfuck you in the ass and worry about the future later.

 

why worry about future?

 

Yeah exactly:afro:

 

i dont understand.
U mean i should worry about future or i shouldnt?