Okay for me this is difficult for me to confront and admit out loud, and never talked to it anyone before but recently it is something that I have come to realise about myself. I am starting to think that i am Bi-curious, not in a way that i want to do anything about it or try anything but i still get thoughts and feelings. I know when another guy is attractive or good looking and sometimes wonder what it would be like, like a deep down curiosity sort of thing. even get odd thoughts of wondering what it would be like to perform oral sex rather than receive it. I recently had a gay friend of mine online flirt with me as a joke (just his nature, which he does with everybody), which made me uncomfortable which i talked to him about, but also at the same time part of me was intrigued, like something deep down. This had made me wondering are these just silly thoughts or ideas and i am just confused or could this mean something, any ideas?
It's just ur Imagination and Curiosity until u try to do this in real ) U can imagine whatever u want, but ur thought dont discri\be u as a man. ur doings do
A good thing here would be to understand that your sexual fantasies, and your real sexual life are really your private, intimate affairs. You may or may not choose to act upon your fantasy/curiosity. The truth is that the sun will still rise in the east, you'll still have to pay your phone bill when it comes in, and the life will continue just as it always does. Not much will really change. You owe it no one to explain yourself. You are your own man, and you go and do what is right for you! KD
...these feelings are real...you didn't say how old you are but they generally start in 40s...once you get these feelings they never go away...you may never act on them but they will still be there...probably getting stronger...it took me a year to get up the nerve but I acted on mine & was never sorry...
hi....you may have ocd. i heard people with ocd are afraid of gay people. there is nothing to be afraid of. most gay people are really really cute. there are some bad gay people out there but most are just cute artists who do no harm and are severly artistic. don't worry.
...what the hell is OCD?...instead of making your life miserable worrying about your feelings...relax & enjoy them...you only live once...don't waste it worrying about things that are natural...
I worked at a place with a gay guy n he used to allway hit on me pass me by n slowly touch me for an instant id had some thouhts years ago but never did em i wanted to lick n suck on a mans dick as my wife 69 me n he was doing her doggystyle well each time he would rub me n walk by my dick get hard as hell n i couldnt rake it anymore i went hid in restroom and i jacked on it for few min n i was like fuck this im not pleased its him on it i want so i txt him was leak in sink he came in and i was rubbing my self and he so fast put me in his mouth n i wont lie he sucked my dick so good i still crave it more n have had him more than once suck me till i couldnt stand up so if im bi then owell i loved how it felt n im not ashamed i soon am gona film it n watch as my wife gos down on me i tried send a video of him at work once to my wife n sent it to my step sister she said it was enjoyable that she masterbated to it next day told her id let her watch if she wanted to and he sucked me jaked me off i came n was laying on her futon he went to clean up n wash up i closed my eyes full pleasure n i felt someone coming ontop of me it was her naked n she sucked me til i was hard and slid me in her pussy he came back and i sucked him as she rode me best nut i ever spent in anyone she claimed it ive since enjoyed her five times im glad i made the mistake lol
Threads like this are quite thought provoking and touch on the borders between friendship and the giant leap into a physical relationship. I did sometimes wonder whether a relationship could have developed with any of my numerous gay friends if we had been together at a different time and in a different situation. However, the thought of the reality of the physical requirements of a relationship with another guy sends chills down my spine in the cold light or day. Somehow I feel that the OP of this thread may well find himself in the same position, since he seems to be separating the reality by confining his activities to the telephone and messages but life is far more complex than we realize at times.
I agree (Don't worry, I wasn't going to close with that as my only response) I'm going to send you a PM
