hey new here and i would like some advise from girls if thats ok? my girlfriend and i are fine with sex but some times she says it feels weird, like i am hitting a strange area in her. She cant describe it well but as i understand it, it is not a nice feeling. i obviously am a bit worryed because i want her to love the sex etc. but ( and very randomly) she will say about this weird feeling. does anyone know what i mean? thank you!!
you could be bumping her cervix, if it happens when you go particularly deep (or fast). my bf will sometimes do that and its an unpleasant sensation. it also feels icky if i, um, need to take a number 2 soonish and we have sex, its just awkward and uncomfortable
I could also be her g-spot or something. For me it's really isn't that comfortable like it is for other woman when a guy hits it.
If she says it's unpleasant, then you're probably hitting her cervix. Make sure you don't go too deep. Or, if you aren't sure how deep is too deep, ask her periodically whether she is alright.
I was going to say the same thing about the cervix. My hubby does that all the time, and it doesn't feel good at all. Just take it easy, and if you want to go fast, try to watch how deep you're going. Really pay attention to when she says it and try to figure out a motion that avoids it.
Yeah for me its just certain angles are really uncomfortable. I'm sure you'll know if thats happening to her though, she probably won't lay there and go with it, I know I can't
