The idea really turns her on, but she(we) don't want to risk the relationship. We have often done a 69 with her sucking me and me fucking her with a big dildo while I lick her. We often fuck with cock sleeves which acts out another man fantasy for us.
"...We used to do that too as kids, always had our dicks out but never touched each other...." "...I don’t find much attractive about guys but the idea of sitting next to a buddy...talking about our wives or experiences is hot to me. ..." "...Anything else just doesn’t do it for me....watching mine when it’s hard and getting played with by a woman..." Given my professional background, and since I own one of these, I find it it both physiologically and emotionally interesting to see, on internet sites, one grow, stiffen and then deliver the usual five squirts which most of us do. Not a fetish by any means, but still interesting. And all the variations of our semen, from pure white, to milky, to clear and from thick to medium to watery. We're all different. My wife hadn't had much experience with men, so I show her the differences of males on vids. Now to get her to sample some. Probably won't work, but maybe.
Don't give up, give her a little time. Then you can put her around other men. A night out dancing with others, give her the right time and place. You might be surprised.
This is a scenario that I see myself trying. I am not sure if it is a fetish, more a curiosity. I enjoy very much my girlfriend being lost in passion and me playing with a guy in a x-some would have turned her on trementiously. If it happens, it happens...I believe that sex is all about unleashed imagination.
My opinion is that both men are a sexual animal from birth to death. A straight man is evolving as he grows up from adolescence to adult hood. It starts with masturbation, and evolves into dating, kissing, petting and ultimately sexual intercourse. After marriage straight fucking is the most common act, evolving to more intimate oral sex and on to anal fetishes. At some point some individuals move on to adultery or swinging. In late middle age sexual function begins to decline resulting in surgeries to the prostate or the uterus. For men this results in erectile dysfunction, but the brain still pumping sexual fantasy, enhanced by pornography and leads to creative ways to experience sexual gratification. As women become indifferent to sex, men do not have a lot of options beyond cheating. I think that sexual potency decline leads to the interest in the penis as a path to satisfaction. This is why penis envy and interest in performing fellatio on another man becomes a curiosity and ultimately an obsession until they try it out. This theory doe not apply to Gay Men or Lesbian Women who are looking for a different type of intimacy and satisfaction.
I too growing up had jackoff sessions with male friends but it was kind of like experimenting with our new found sexuality. As I grew and married I was content with being straight and sex was great with my wife. But in the back of mind every once in awhile a remembrance of the days past would arise but it wasn't anything I wanted to act upon. Now in my sixties, sex with my wife is no longer I found my interest coming back to the point of acting upon it with a male friend and find it exciting and pleasurable when we can get together. I don't know if it's hormonal or not but I suppose I could use that theory if my wife ever found out about us.
In my head its totally normal to have the urge to play with and suck a cock. No interest in kissing a man
No interest in men or kissing men also, but have a fantasy about playing and sucking a cock , but would have to look like a women, the thought of easing her panties down and licking and sucking her cock till she cums is overwhelming, I masturbate thinking of sucking her cock many times
I feel the same. I wonder what it would be like to go down on a cock with stocking or pantyhose legs on my shoulders and high heels in my back, but around here, no one seems interested in a first-timer.
just real friends helping each other out is all it is ... enjoy and take care of each other when away from the wife.
I was lucky to get good training from other men who were not inhibited about bi sex in my early 20s. Saved me a lot of grief and made me a better lover with both men and women.
Dear Bi: You appear to be one of the lucky ones. I was not so fortunate. My only experience with watching other men having sex, was when I went away to college and lived in a dormitory. On a Saturday afternoon there was a commotion in the room next to ours. We could hear one of our floor mates vocalizing, sighing and moaning, in a highly aroused state. We thought that someone was watching porn and had not invited the neighbors. We rushed next door only for find one of our floor mates throat fucking a visiting friend and jogging partner. They both had their shorts pulled down. The excited guy on his back with his head angled off the edge of the bed with the other guy humping his mouth and throat. When my roommate and I backed up to return to our room we noticed , to our amazement that we both had solid erections. We talked about it afterward and expressed no interest in trying it ourselves.
Sounds like im like everyone else, married straight but really wanting to suck my first cock, anyone have suggestions for me, let me know, love the panty hose photo, makes me horny, not into guys, just want to try sucking a cock, help me out anybody ?
There is a lot of risk trying to find another curious guy on line. There were a lot of gay guys who worked at the company that I used to work at. If you have this kind of environment, talk to him and tell him your situation. Gays do not bite, you can talk to them frankly.
I have never been interested in another man and am 100% asexual following prostate surgery. I work in a liberal community and have a working relationship with many gays. generally they know of someone in your situation and can introduce you to someone. Most of these people are in a long term relationship and are not actively looking for a close friend.
Thank you again, your knowledge is greatly appreciated, i will continue to keep a very open mind in my attempt to satisfy my strong desires and hopefully at some point be able to have some satisfaction.