You ladies should know what I am talking about here. Until a certain age guys have a rabbit style of fucking. Kinda like a dog humping your leg. Why is this? I think that it is universal. Every guy I had sex with under 22 did the rabbit. Its like an epidemic. Guys, do the future women in your life a favor, find an older women and have her teach you some things. The rabbit must stop!!!
i'm trying to stop. i'm almost there. probably ahead of my peers around here. nut sometimes you just gotta. i think it has something to do with the speed we usually beat off.
well, i know for a fact that that can be a demeaning thing to womyn. they feel like they are animals. i think love making should be passionate and sincere
you mean everyone slows the speed down once we get older? hmmmm it must definatly be something about the speed that i beat off... lol... Myself and I think every guy out here will tell you that they can not fuck anywhere near the speed of "beatoff" lol. And besides, you women seem to sound like you enjoy it that way... atleast who i've been with. they hate it when i go slow. Another thing I hate (Which I love) is forplay... man everyone just wants to get straight to the fucking... They are only robbing themselves though... lots more forplay can do a helluva lot more for the lady Lets just say I went for an hour of forplay with one of my X's... I gave her the longest most intense orgasm of her life... it consisted of 7-8 orgasms lasting total of an hour. She was shaking and screaming and everything this entire time lol. man oh man... that was awesome. When I finally finished, she didn't want to move from the bed and exclaimed that she would never be horny in her entire life again. lol. Needless to say she didn't have a drive for the next day but after that it was go time again lol
Well, most guys that age have no emotional attachment to sex... when they get older they can relate sex to emotion and put "feeling" in to thier movement. Just like most girls put too much thought into it.... it's not always the guys fault. My husband and I had HORRIBLE sex in the beginning. It takes getting to know what the other person likes for sex to really work. I might be talking out my ass, but I'm speaking from experience. If the guy is bad... teach him. If you can't do that... then don't blame him.
Yea guys do tend to do that, i dont think ive ever been with a guy who didnt have a rabbit style to him sometimes. Then again its not always bad it can be great fun if your feeling horney in that way, but yea geese do i CRAVE a bit of slow and passionate sometimes! Your right GUYS GROW UP AND STOP PUMMELING US! then again i agree with above comment, once you get to know someone its a lot easyer to make love rather than just having passionate sex. Theres only been one guy i could just hold and have inside me and feel like we were making pure totaly love and unfortunatly that came to late in the relationship to save us. I also agree us girls do take it a bit to sensitivly soemtimes but.. well i guess we have a right.
All I can say is my last few gfs have commented on the fact that I love to tease them.. withdrawing almost all the way out and then just shallow penetration for a few seconds before plunging in deep all of a sudden.. seems to drive them crazy and is good for me prolonging my own orgasm of course. Younger guys just need to learn patience I guess . It's not a race.. more like a series of short races run one after another.
I blame porno vids. Whenever the gut starts doing that the woman goes nuts so we just make sad asumptions
missfontella, you always crack me up. what provoked this thread? did you end up getting with the younger guy in your class? lol
Yes! And everything was great until the rabbit showed up! We laughed and talked for hours, he is the coolest guy and so sexy. I'm debating if I feel like teaching him. (he is just so much fun!) And that's what I'm looking for...fun, that is....not the rabbit.
haha, fontella. congrats on "making your move". see, he obviously didn't think you were too old. just think, you'll be doing a public service, if you decide to teach him. all of his future partners will be eternally grateful. rofl.
lol its true though. most guys are just trying to get theirs and i think they think the faster they get it the more sleep they can get.
I usually just go faster because it gets the girl screaming more lol. then while going extremly fast i do an instant stop and slowly I mean very slowly go in... and out... in and out... then i thrust it in as far as my little guy will go I just hear this "AWWWWwwwwwwWwWwwWwww" come from the girl lol its fun.
*giggles* i like the rabbit... I hate when they are all slow and boring sensual smesual blah blah BORING! I get bored too easily. I like it quick, hard, and crazy. Maybe its because I'm young? Maybe I just haven't met a guy I want sensually...I dont know! Now I'm wondering whats wrong with me...hmmmm...
Porn movies are a bad influence. To get an idea, watch some of the sensual love making scenes out of mainstream movies. You get an idea about how adults have sex. Slow and gentle, slow deep thrusts with the male enjoying being devoured and the female enjoying doing the devouring. A loving and intimate connection between the two of you that seems to last forever. A place where time stands still and your are totally consumed by the pleasures offered by your partner. You are physically, emotionally and spiritually connected to one another for that moment of time, and you want that moment to last and last forever and ever. Eventually you may need to pick up the pace a little to be able to come, but not too fast please...
I've had "the rabbit" and I've had it medium speed and I've had it slow....all ways make me cry out the dudes name...so all ways are just fine by me.