This looked like the place to ask this question… is it wrong to want a girl that is fine with being what I call a stay at home whore? I don’t mean that term as an insult; it’s just a literal description. I’ve always been a bit confused on how someone wouldn’t want a person to pay for everything, cook and clean for them, WANT them to not work… all I ask for in return is sex and living together? The living together for the convenience of sex and hey.., I like to cuddle at night it just seems so rare to find someone interested in that type of relationship! Am I crazy to want something like that?
So if the woman did the cooking and cleaning too, that would be like marriage, the old fashioned way. So that would mean in your book a wife is worse than a whore who doesn't do cooking and cleaning? Did I get that right? I thought a man needs a maid, so I've heard. You sound like someone who might enjoy S&M. But you'll have to clean with your tongue!
Perhaps you wouldn't mind a grisette? La Grisette The name grisette is believed to be derived from the French word for grey, or gris. This dull color was worn by seamstresses when they were at work. The grisette is a prostitute of working-class background, often working as a seamstress, embroiderer, or tailor. The most common customers for the grisette were young men studying in Paris and in need of a woman to keep house in their apartments. Grisettes would exchange sex work for a stable home, protection, and pay from their young suitors. The grisettes’ job in the fashion industry brought them into contact with women of higher classes. The grisettes would create or embellish clothing for these women and so had an interesting interaction with style during this time. The interactions with high class women inspired some grisettes to aspire to climbing social classes. Being a grisette was not a lifetime commitment, and women often strived to reach the highest level of courtesan, the highest rank of prostitute. Many, however, never made it past the status of lorette, or aspiring courtesan. Grisettes and the students they lived with did not have purely romantic relationships, although they were typically monogamous (or serially monogamous). Their exchange was one closer to servitude than passion; grisettes were in charge of cleaning the house, cooking meals, and managing other household tasks. This exchange was necessary due to the grisettes' lack of social standing; women who engaged in prostitution at this time often did so to reach some elevated socioeconomic level or simply to make ends meet, textile work being poorly paid. The following translated excerpt is from Jules Janin's study of social types, "La Physiologie de la Grisette": "When he [the student] entertains his friends, it’s she who, before presiding over the feast, cooks the cutlets and sets the table. One must sing the praises of the grisette who wonderfully gives herself over to all the household tasks, which makes her indispensable and gives her the air of a married woman." (1) The grisette's service was close to what a married woman would do during this time period. The grisette would not, however, have the social stability or financial benefits of a married woman. It was not uncommon for grisettes to be forced to switch from one student to another, changing lovers with the academic seasons that Parisian institutions followed. Understanding why grisettes lived with students, and enjoyed little to no rights in the household, is important. Prostitutes, like grisettes, often came from very poor backgrounds, and aimed to work the system in order to gain some financial security or, for the more ambitious, some status in society. La Grisette · Types of Prostitutes in 19th Century France · A la Recherche des Femmes Perdues
. People in general want to follow thier own self-actualization. This, rather than a personal rejection of you. The post did not have a mention of love. All people need love, Girls need love.
A lot of triggered people here. I didn’t say the arrangement would be perpetually binding for both parties. I.e., anyone is free to leave; it’s not forced labor people. The relationship doesn’t have to be transactional as I made it sound. In fact, there’s a hint of a dom / sub dynamic; you can even say sugar daddy and sugar baby too. You can quibble on which person fills each role, but I have thought about where this desire for this specific type of relationship comes from. I realize some like to project their own needs onto others, but I was merely curious if there were others that would be content with such a setup at least for a while. Given how superficial and lazy society has seemingly become it surprises me this hasn’t been explicitly pursued by some. I’ve just never met a like minded person to try it.
Hey, I bet that arrangement sounds attractive to many seniors. Lots of lonely old ladies out there looking for companionship. You wouldn't age discriminate, now would ya?
