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You talk openly about masturbation which is interesting as I havn't met a female in hell here who would actually even majority of guys won't its just really a phase that junior high boys talk about non stop. Out of interest can the females here tell me why is it that females in the states are so open about sexual activity?

 

For the most part, they aren't. They are on the forums, but that is because this is a forum filled with liberal, open-minded, level-headed girls. Unfortunately, most girls aren't like that.

For the most part, America is probably more conservative about discussing masturbation than most other nations.

 

I don't masturbate enough to talk about it.
If I did masturbate a lot I would probably talk about it quite often...just because it would be something to talk about. And who knows maybe someone would suggest a good method or something...

 

well the girls i know in person(like face to face) wont openly talk about masturbation....its almost a "Hush hush" topic. they get embarrassed very easily. i think its easier to talk about it openly on the net b/c you dont have to look at people in the face and talk about it. But really it totally depends on the people you talk to. I mean i know people in person who dont care what you talk about, they are so open to anything.

 

You know, you should change that.

Well, if someone here doesn't help you (and I'm sure someone could), you can always get answers in "Love & Sex."

 

so i was masturbating the other day and i realized that i need some new moves can anyone suggest any new techniques??

 

Yes, you're right. It's still very taboo for some reason.

Agreed. The internet makes a world of difference.

Yes, there is that, too. Some people are open to it, and some people simply don't want to hear it. I've never really encountered anyone (in real face-to-face life) who really wanted to talk about it or who really didn't want to talk about it, though. Most people I've talked to are just kind of on the fence about it... they'll discuss it, but they get embarassed and whatnot.

 

Um... use two hands? I don't know. It depends on what you already do.

 

I think I am too immature to masturbate. I just feel silly doing so, I don't know what my problem is. I have to be really horny to actually attempt masturbating.

Maybe one day it will all click and I can happily masturbate each morning.

 

Haha, I've never heard that one before...

Or evening... or afternoon...

 

I could help you there.


Yeah, people think it's weird when I talk about wanking off. I really do discuss it in my life as much as I do here.

Whatever, I don't care...

 

Could you help me as well?

you see i've already m astered some methods

Two-Hander (aka The Clarinet)
Wrap both hands around your penis, one stacked on top of the other using only the thumb, index finger and middle finger of each hand, as if you are playing a musical instrument, such as the clarinet. You will place your thumbs on the bottom side of your penis and your fingers on the top of your shaft. Move your fingers and thumbs up and down.

The Fist
This is the status quo of masturbation grips. It is usually done when you are lying down and your erect penis is resting against your stomach. Then you simply reach down with one hand, wrap your fingers around your penis much like you’re making a fist and rub your hand up and down the length of your penis.


But I do have a question about four-finger masturbation... it seems i cant get the right angle...

 

i masturbate quite often. im open about it because....well, im open about everything, really. it takes a lot to embarrass me or make me ashamed. im not ashamed of sex, i love sex.

 

No.

I don't have a penis.

 

lies...

 

Hey...

 

oh btw.....i do masturbate. not daily tho.

 

straw?

 

After the 30s, when women started to break free out of the typical corsets and bustiers (think loose, formless dresses that flappers wore), American culture has become more sexual. Back in the dayP) it was EXTREMELY rare to find someone willing to talk openly about sex, but after the sexual revolution, so many people dropped that idea. Now people are coming to terms with the fact that "Hey, most people have sex at some point in their lives. Most people, even the ones who won't admit it, do or have tried masturbation. Its not a huge deal."
I guess being sexual is freeing, and is becoming more mainstream. Hey! 50 years ago, divorce was practically unheard of, and unwed pregnancies were usually covered with the mother of the girl who got preganant (the grandmother) saying that she, herself, was the mother! Times have changed a lot, and I guess North American society has come to accept this easier than some places.

 

flappers...