stalked by paranoid schizophrenic..help

I have a client who confided she is being stalked by an x bf. She says he has mental health issues which he kept from her. After the breakup she went to see him confused as he called her a vampire and wicked witch, he was paranoid and reported HER to the police for stalking when she went to try to get logical answers. Years have past and she told me she has just confirmed that this person has hacked her phone and computer. He has been seen driving past her house as well. I looked into her alleged cyber stalking claims as she is also a friend. I had a computer tech look at the computer and he confirmed what she said. It would appear he is tapping a 3G phone! He has ex airforce friends. This seems to be a reality. He is stalking above the law it seems. Can anyone advise here please. She does not want to go to the police through fear of him. He has been stalking for 2 years now and so far has done nothing nor made contact. How horrible for her. She wishes this person would leave her alone. She asked me to post this here, as she has an account and thinks he is talking to her through various members. She wants him to know that others know what he is up to and that she is seeing a therapist as a result of the cyber invasion. He is a serious risk to her mental health. If he reads this. Please leave my client alone, she is very fragile.

 

As long as she doesn’t have a criminal record I advise her to purchase a gun for protection and if mr. wrong shows up perhaps she can cure his illness by performing a lobotomy :2thumbsup:



Hotwater

 

Frightening isn't it. She has suffered this alone a long time. Her mental health has deteriorated considerably through the stress of it. The worst of it is she has no privacy. He has invaded every aspect of her life. She wants only privacy and says she will hurt him emotionally in everyway possible thinking this may be her only recourse to make him think and feel it isn't worth it. The locals where he lives find him to be a trouble maker. worrying isn't it.

 

If The law won't help
Hire a stranger to beat his ass down...
You'd prolly be doing a lot of people a favor

 

Thanks zombiewolf. It may just result in an eye for eye type resolution. Hopefully he will respect her wishes and move on or contact her legitimately, have a cup of tea, resolve the lingering issues and move on? Maybe too mature? She would be fine with that as she is very much a peace lover.

 

I don't think people that are that far gone are going to change. She wouldn't want to start a tit for tat situation going with him. That would only make him think she is still interested in him, in his sick mind. I also think there is no such thing as "stalking above the law". -------you left some things out here--can she move? Can she change all her computer names-phone numbers? As far as a gun goes--it's better to have and not need than to need and not have. The paperwork to keep him away from her will not stop an attack,if it comes to that. People with restraining orders get killed all the time. What about her parents or friends? If it was my daughter being stalked,it wouldn't last very long. If he was lucky,he would eat his dinner thru a straw. I'm sorry for her.

Sometimes I think there should be secretive squads of men that work by dark of night to teach abusive men a hard lesson for harassing women.

 

There are groups of citizens out there who believe in vigilante justice but they go after high value targets and the star chambers they formed - highly secretive.


Hotwater

 

Thanks for the support friends. I appreciate it.

 

Why Not Speak To A Senior Police Officer About Taking Out A

Restraining Order Against Him, That Way If He Harasses Her In Person Or On The Net

They Can Take Immediate Action For Breaching The Order....



Cheers Glen.

 

Yeah I would advise to tell the police and not buy a gun. Guns are dangerous, and what would happen if he was snooping around her house and found the gun, an extreme hypothetical, but I'm pretty much against guns period. The police can't do much without a lot of information and proof, like pictures of him stalking etc. But they could at least give him a warning. My neighbor was so bad, and also unstable, that she was ordered to move out of the state and out of our neighborhood. Because she also stalked and did crazy stuff.

If I were you, I'd tell my friend to document everything and then present to the local police force.