Didnt know exactly where this subject fit... So recently my boyfriend and I have started going deep while I am on top of him and I rock my hips back and forth while he holds me down. It almost hurts but it feels good at the same time. It also feels like I need to pee so we stop because im afraid of doing that. My question is, is that the start of squirting? I have never done that as I havent found a position that really set me off like that. If so, do I just let it happen? I mean I dont want to give him a golden shower but he really enjoys the position and I would like to squirt just to see what its like. Help!
2 questions for you as a couple. Did you enjoy it?? Did he enjoy it? If the answer is yes, ...... forget labels, forget about analyzing what comes out ... just keep doing it!
From what I've read and heard, that is the feeling you get before you squirt. The feeling of needing to pee is normal. Is he interested in having you squirt on him? You don't want to freak him out. I would love a girl to squirt for me, it would make me cum instantly. Good luck! Hope you both enjoy!
He would love for me to do it, but im still a little nervous about what is actually going to come out. We stop before I reach that point but up until then it feels amazing for both of us.
Totally disagree with this statement! OP if you man would love this to happen and you would love it to happen just let it go! It does sound like you are there and the only holding you back is yourself. Nothing to fear it is a great experience for all involved.
Just put some thick towels underneath you next time & when you feel the urge of what feels like peeing, - just go for it enjoy the feeling of relief it brings & clean up afterwards sometime.
yes yes yes, the position you describe is exactly the position and technique my wife and i use that is the best way to get her to squirt (or gush) also, yes the "pee" sensation is what you should be feeling because it is his penis rubbing your bladder, and that is what triggers off the squirting, so just let it go, and your partner will know when you have squirted or gushed (even if a trickle) because you will suddenly get very wet down there, but it is not quite the same wet sensation he will get from your natural vaginal fluids, it will be more watery, and very warm. the thing to remember is if you find that you are a squirter, and you guys intend doing this a lot, if you want to avoid a watery mess all over your bed, go buy a thin plastic sheet that you can throw over your bed under a an absorbent sheet, that way your urine wont wet the bedding underneath, and the sheet will absorb all your urine, so when you finish your business, you can rip the sheet and plastic off the bed, and you can get to bed and sleep it off. contrary to popular myth, when you gush or squirt, it is urine, and in the porn videos when you see a woman gushing a lot, they actually drink a lot of water before shooting starts, and will continue drinking water between scenes, and they will edit the video to make it seem like she has gushed bucket loads in the same scene, when its not the case. my wife will also squirt or gush a lot when lying on her back with her legs pulled back and rests her knees on her shoulders, and i insert my pointer and middle fingers inside her pussy, and use a rubbing motion so my fingers actually rub her G-Spot, which is the rippled textured mound that is found about 2" to 3" inside her pussy on the front wall. i am also able to squirt pre-cum and urine from my penis while she anally pegs me using her strapless strapon dildo.
Bullshit derflappin. My girlfriend is a gusher and it is an odorless fluid unlike urine. I have fingered her with an empty bladder and it still happened. It is however a g spot orgasm and I can feel the area fill up before it happens. What you've described in porn could very well be the case but not IRL! My girlfriend and I do have a special blanket made by the company that makes "The Liberator" that we put down before sex that catches and absorbs most of the mess and is much more comfortable than plastic.
whats with the "bullshit" bit ??? in my post i was referring to my wife squirting or gushing while stadling my groin so she get deep penetration that allows the head of my penis to hit her bladder wall, causing her to orgasm and squirt, and she will often remark about having to "pee" before she lets it go, and i can assure you, her fluid is indeed urine, and she knows it, and this form of squirting/gushing is well documented to be urine. the squirting orgasm you are calling bullshit on is in relation to the G-Spot squirting orgasm, which i also described that my wife is also able to achieve in certain positions, and as far as all documentation goes that i have ever read, this still appears to be urine, or urine related product, and is stored in the bladder and is discharged via the urethra, just as it is when when my wife has her squirting orgasms from hitting the bladder wall during deep penetration. most of us know that the G-Spot is a mound like area about 2" to 3" inside the front wall of the vagina, and it has a rippled texture to it, something that cant be missed once you actually find it, and in many women (not all) rubbing this "mound" triggers off that gushing/squirting orgasm, and thus far, i have not seen or read any documentation that actually proves without doubt that it is not urine, or something related to it, nor indicate where this fluid is stored in a womans body if it is not urine from the bladder, and it appears that it is still released via the Urethra in the same way as peeing or the type of squirting orgasm my wife has. if you can provide some documentation that clearly indicates what this G-Spot fluid really is, and where it is stored, then please post it up in here, i certainly will be interested in reading it. some porn actresses do squirt or gush, and are dam good at it, but in many other cases i can assure you that what i said is correct, and i know it because i used to shoot porn videos for a year or so in 3005/06, that was until i woke up to the bullshit that was going on, its not what most people think it is, and some shoots can go on for a whole day just to give the actress time to swallow more water so she can do some more gushing, but not all porn actresses can gush. if an actress cant achieve a gush, the director would manipulate the scenes in such a way that they will stop the shoot right before the critical moment where she would be required to gush, and the actress would actually hold water inside her vagina, and they would resume shooting from a different angle showing her releasing the water, and make it appear she had a big gusher. porn is all bullshit, thats why i now only shoot amateur erotic videos for private clients for their own personal use, or for their private Vimeo channels or websites.
What you have described between you and your wife both with her squirting and how you orgasm while being pegged is inaccurate. You've described yourself urinating upon orgasm when that is an impossibility. The g-spot serves the same function in a female that the prostate serves in the male. When we are sexually aroused the prostate swells up pinching off the end of the tube from the bladder so that we don't urinate during sex. It also happens while we sleep so that we don't wet the bed. The prostate also works in conjunction with the skeins gland to produce Culpers Fluid also referred to as precum to balance the ph in the uerethra so that the sperm in semen doesn't get killed by the acidity. The prostate also produces all of the other fluid in semen that isn't sperm. Ok now that that has been said there have been studies as to what is in female ejaculate and there are traces of the same chemicals that are in urine. I'm going to go out on a limb and theorize that this is from traces of urine that may still be in the uerethra. That does not make it urine. Now I realize that porn is bullshit. Yes I'm sure about 98% of the time in porn those squirts are urine. Just because it is that way in porn doesn't mean it is that way in real life. C/S, Rev J
gah! i wish i knew that the peeing sensation was the start 2 years ago! I used to freak out whenever i felt like i needed to pee. I would completely freeze and sometimes break down in tears because i thought i was going to pee. Since then, i never get that sensation. I've always been fascinated by 'squirting' and wanted to experience it. But ever since i used to stop at the sensation, I don't think i'll ever get that chance again.
And speaking of a plastic sheet,,, go to a store that sells disability stuff. They have a bed pad thingy made of protective material on the underside and absorbent material on the top side,,, now listen! They have them in a hospital white that look like medical gear and they have em in an appolstered type material in several sizes. You can get em in a cool blue shade or a light or dark brown,,, many choices but the material is meant to look nice on an easy boy kind of chair in a living room. About $16 to 30 bucks. They look good in a living room and are comfortable to sit on so wouldnt look so bad on a bed either. No plastic under yer butt. Chuck the Glad garbage bags! These wash up easy too.
So what is the proper term name for this fluid some woman are able to squirt out that is being referred to as coming from a gland that is somewhere inside a woman's urethra ?
best to ask the great Reverend JC above, he seems to think he knows everything about this topic (amongst many others) so i am staying out of it, only to say that in our experiences, he was completely wrong in his last post about a particular scenario that i mentioned in an earlier post about me and my wife.