Spanking

Newbie here, just wondering if there are any members who are spankee or spanker love to chat sometime

 

Welcome! There are a few here.

 

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Spankee

 

I too am a spankee Wife wants NO part of being the spankee. She says I will spank you as often as you want but you are not spanking me ever.

 

Haha, we’ll, then it seems like a pretty good dom/sub fit.

 

Yes so far it’s been good. New to spanking we are started 10 months ago. Wife like the role playing part with the teacher and me the student who can’t spell correctly.

 

Awe, you get spanked for not being able to spell correctly? I’m sorry, that seems unfair. Haha. I got a real life spanking (verbal not physical clearly, definitely felt like a spanking though) from my manager the other day, I made a post about it on this forum called “sore bottom.” My spanking was pretty unfair too. In fantasy land, it’s kind of hot, but in real life it just makes them suck as employers.

 

Thanks for the reply. My is like 50/50 half spanker halve vanilla. She spanks me because she loves me and knows I need it from time to time. I usually get 50 or 60 swats on each cheek of my butt. She uses a 12” wooden paddle that stings pretty good and makes my ass pretty red. If you want to chat sometime we can always PM if you prefer.

 

We can pm if you want. I like talking about getting spanked, and discipline in general. A good spanking is healthy and needed time to time. 50 is a good solid number if not much correction is needed to change a behavior. Sounds like your getting good discipline

 

I like to be spanked twice a month but it does always happen as often as I would like. Not sure I understand the feeling but I usually want more even though it stings a lot. She refuses to continue after my 50/60 on reach cheek.

 

I did get a nice birthday spanking a few weeks ago 74 on each cheek. Yes I am 74 years old. Question for you how did you get started in spanking?

 

Yeah, it’s a weird thing to “want” but clearly something desired by many. Seems a touch of it is joked about regularly even on family friendly sitcoms. It’s because the desire is more “normal” then society lets on. To me, I think we should normalize it, good ol’ spanking never hurt anyone.

 

Just always a desire, it’s not even a sexual desire for me. Just a normal natural desire.

 

My attachment started out as a sexual desire but now has changed to more of a non-sexual desire it really amounts to my needs. The funny part of my situation is according to my wife I can do no wrong and really don’t deserve a spanking, but she gives me a spanking mostly by role playing.

 

A couple of times we were playing card with another couple and I threw away the wrong card and she will say you keep that up and you will get a spanking when we get home. However it went right over the other couples heads and they had no comment.

 

Do you ever get to be the spanker or are you always the spankee

 

I think even as kids, we know discipline is healthy. Role plays can be fun, if they’re believable. To me, it needs to feel “real.” That’s why even though my boss’s response sucked and was damaging more than anything else… posting about it and talking to other people about it has been enjoyable because it was real punishment deserved or undeserved as it may have been. UNDESERVED by the way!

 

I’ve spanked. Also enjoyable when the spank was earned!

 

I have a couple of errands run chat later please stay in touch with pm