Spanking For Real Life Infractions

I recently got away with breaking the law. My actions could have potentially harmed others. In my case though, I was the only one harmed. I guess I'm glad I didn't get caught because I can't have a criminal record. However, I still feel the need to be punished severely. I am thinking of going to a professional dominatrix for a lot of swats with a wood paddle or cane on my bare butt. I thought I'd tell her what my crime was and let her decide how severely I should be punished. I've had sessions with this domme before and she's good. She is great at acting out a fantasy and causing as much pain as I can handle. The first time I saw her she left my butt bloodied and blistered. It took over 3 months for the marks to go away. Has anyone else ever had someone spank them as a real life punishment?

 

My husband and I were into spanking for a while. Started out as erotic foreplay. I give, but do not receive.

Anyway, on a few occasions, what he thought was going to be erotic foreplay, I decided that I was going to use the session for punishment. I had found gay porn on one of our computers, or some other punishable offense. So, while he was naked over my knees, and I was wielding a wooden hairbrush paddle, I took the opportunity to berate him for his transgressions while turning his ass cheeks a lovely shade of red. He was pretty surprised the first time I did it.

 

only my dad and boyfriend are allowed to spank me when naughty

 

I have clients who come to me to be punished for real life infractions. The hardest spankings I have ever administered are to men who have smacked Females on the butt. I make certain that they pay dearly for that.

 

My wife is a disciplinarian. She has set the rules and I'm expected to follow them. Any deviations of those rules results in my going over her knees for a punishment spanking. The length and intensity of each spanking varies but always results in a very red and sore bottom.

 

This is one area were I struggle with the psyche of spanking .

Yes Okay, I believe punishment should fit the crime , No arguments there .,

However if someone likes the very punishment that is going to be dished out ,then how can this be a deterrent ? Surely they will just come back for more.?

I appreciate some of this is just fantasy and no "real crime " is being committed. But then why not just settle for roleplaying were anything goes as long as it is in agreement and is within current set boundaries ?

 

One thing that I do is to spank a guy to get my frustrations out. If I'm frustrated, there is no better place to get that out than on a naked male butt. Of course, that may fall more under therapeutic spanking

 

See my thread How I Discovered I Liked Spanking. I have received a few from my mother, with my full agreement, for doing things that were thoughtless or inconsiderate. Like the time I borrowed her car, got a parking ticket and stuck it in the glove compartment and didn't tell her. Of course they contacted her and her fine was increased. It was 30 dollars, so I took 30 swats with a paddle from her, with only my Victoria's Secret thong for protection. In other words, none. Though I was 18, I yelled and cried some, and did not sit comfortably for 3 days, and used a cushion.
But I deserved it, and afterwards my mom and I made up, and no more lectures about how irresponsible I was. The matter was settled.
Have had several from other women I have had a relationship with, including my present partner. Most of our spankings are strictly for fun and play, But if I do something stupid or dangerous she will get out the hairbrush or her paddle.

 

First spanking from someone else was from the captain of a recreation league softball team I played on one summer while in high school
I failed to run after a ball hit to centerfield and my team lost the game.
Joanna the captain who was also the losing pitcher.was very angry and asked me to stay behind after the game. She chewed me out for not hustling and said I should be kicked off the team. But she would give me another chance I agreed to "the spanking you deserve."
So of course I did and went over her knees there in the women's dressing room at the ballfield. Down came my shorts and panties and she smacked my bare butt several dozen times, good and hard. I squirmed and yelped but managed not to cry.
When she finished she told me that if there was a next time I was off the team-unless I cared to take a spanking in front of the entire team and she would use a paddle!
I apologized to her and then to the rest of the team the next game. That was the last time I failed to run hard in a game.
The spanking really drove home to me how I had let my teammates down. Especially when I drove home sitting on a hot, burning, tender rear end!

 

I didn't think this type of thing actually went on . I have read so many similar scenarios like this in spanking stories when doing research for role play situations .
I thought it was just some sort of fantasy using punishment as a bargaining tool to save a job or remain part of a sports team . So I stand to be corrected .

 

I got a speeding ticket a few years ago, and OMG I would have loved to have been spanked by that officer of the law. The thought did go through my mind of instead offering a common sexual favor to avoid the ticket, but other thoughts of spending the night on jail held me back. Besides, even if he agreed to spank me while I leaned over the hood of my car, that would have caused quite a traffic jam - it was in the middle of the day on a busy street.

 

That is an easy example to roleplay .You just use a chair or table to represent the hood of a car .

 

My OH received pink cheeks for sneaking a small Tiramisu from the fridge bought for our son . She was caught red handed and her only defence was that it fell out of the fridge. A likely story more like fell out of the fridge into her hands . I don't think it was a deterrent if being honest as she was giggling all the time .

She is on a self inflicted diet to shave a few pounds off to fit a velvet dress for a Christmas Party.

 

Hot! Females_Over_Males would definitely approve of that. Spanking a naughty boy for real life infractions.

The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret

 

I just recently got a very serious ass, whipping with lexan Rod, and thick maple paddle. I was rude to a lady I was corresponding to, and she took offense. My disciplinarian made sure that I paid a serious price for that.

 

I always thought that 'real spankings' were someone's fantasy and basically no one actually took it or did it seriously. Apparently many people do. I don't get the appeal of it -- though as a kid I never got the appeal of motorcycles either - they seemed to be ridiculously hazardous to one's health. Seems like spankings could be also.

 

If they "just come back for more", the spanking they received was not intense enough to be a deterrent.

 

I would like.to be put over th knee of a man and given a good hard spanking, I am a 70 yr young man in Upstate My 12065 any takers