I am the Miss (sub) in a 6 yr relationship. We are very exploratory in our sex lives & really enjoy pushing boundaries. Yesterday he introduced the Cane using that many times on my arse which i have to say was amazing, we also play with various other toys to and I do love getting slapped and being spoken down to, insulted etc. I have a question for other Submissive partners: After every amazing sex session that we both really love and fully get into our roles, the following day I am quite often really emotional. I want to know if any others feel like that and if they can say why they think it is? I don't think its related to the pain or the bruising or the way we speak to each other that makes it happen to me, Honestly I love seeing the bruising, the reminder of how hot it was, but i just can't get my head around why i feel so down the next day. We don't live together.