spanked or be spanked / or switch

Discussion in 'Beginners BDSM' started by goddessallegra, Jan 8, 2023.

  1. goddessallegra

    goddessallegra Members

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    What is your big turn on? you love to spank or been spanked or it is a big turn on if you have a switch?
    I think it is hot to spank someone's ass - to spank it hard and watch how it is getting red. Also i love to spank a females ass and her boyfriend/ husband is watching me. yes - i am a female and i love that kind of play. I am bi and love a devote couple
     
  2. MasseurNaturel

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    Both, as part of roleplay, I love to spank with a paddle, and as part of a much bigger roleplay scenario with the right people I enjoy being spanked.
     
  3. Ang3lyz

    Ang3lyz Senior Member

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    using a crop or flogger is fun to either on him or him on me
     
  4. Naughty boy

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    be spanked, but usually don't enjoy it.
     
  5. goddessallegra

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    thank you for sharing
     
  6. Princess Autumn

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    I love being spanked while in chastity and just before being pegged.
     
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  7. Jennifer Nicole Smith

    Jennifer Nicole Smith Newbie

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    Sometimes I am spanked
     
  8. Softwhispers

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    Love to be spanked! Bare hand or paddle are my favs
     
  9. goddessallegra

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    thank you for sharing
     
  10. Dianne with 2 nn's

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    I loooove a good sexy spanking, hard smacks with a paddle, then fingernails tracing lightly over my ass gets me in the mood for some serious BDSM! Add nipple claps with weights and I'm in a sub frenzy! That's when I give my best blowjobs!
     
  11. straightma1e

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    As far as a good hard spanking it's not for me. Although I love it when my partner playfully pops me on the ass. Just a little slap or two to get my attention and then have her be a little evasive. She'll let me retaliate by having me chase her around a bit. Once captured I'll lightly paddle her ass for being naughty before going down on her. From there? Well just use your imagination.
     
  12. maelstromaz

    maelstromaz The more I know, the less I understand.

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    If I had to choose only one of the options, I would choose to be spanked, as I have not tried that. The thought of a strict, verbally demanding woman with hairbrush and a strap does wonders for my imagination. I'm quite flexible, so switching roles would be fun also.
     
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  13. Romper

    Romper Lifetime Supporter Super Moderator

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    I had a girlfriend years ago who liked to be spanked. I would use a lightweight paddle on her so as to not hurt her, but to make her ass cheeks nice and red. Didn't do much for me, but she liked it.
     
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  14. Scharff

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    I enjoy spanking a girl. Prefer over the knee with her panties around her ankles but I've done it with her flat on her belly on the bed, legs slightly spread. It hurts my hand too which surprised me the first time. I was also surprised at how quickly her cheeks got red and how wet she got. I'm talking about running down her thighs.
     
  15. Scissorfriendly

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    Any suggestions for role play that I can try with my girlfriend? She’s a freak. Likes a lot of kink. I’m game, but honestly I could take it or leave it.
     
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  16. straightma1e

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    Here's one. You - the little imp who keeps getting into the cookie jar or something similar. GF catches you and slaps your hand. But you can't resist and get into the jar again. GF catches you again when she's nude but this time it's not a hand slap. It's a full on bend over the knee spanking with a paddle, pants down, cock between her bare legs, and a red rump. Then you get to sit on the floor and put your nose between her legs for punishment. As you lick away she can still smack that ass when you don't do well.
     
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  17. Phillip L. Jones

    Phillip L. Jones Newbie

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    Hi there, I’m Phillip L. Jones. I want to be pulled over a hot woman’s lap and have my bum roasted until I can’t sit for two weeks. Or better yet two women’s laps. Or I could be over a bed and being spanked by two ladies. Being spanked on the bed is the most comfortable place. I want to be spanked until my butt is purple. A woman making a man cry and whine and struggle like a baby or little boy, especially if the man is big and strong and the women is petite arouses me so much! I love role reversals. Even a woman scolding a man or making him bow to her excites me. I also like aftercare, like rubbing lotion on a sore bum, because it makes me feel loved. I’m into gentle femdom or what Elise Sutton calls Loving Female Authority. My role play fantasy is me being unemployed and staying with someone, then a woman or two of them offer(s) to me stay at their place rent free, if I let them spank me if I don’t do what they say or if they are frustrated and want to vent on my ass. I want to be restrained when I’m being beaten on my buttocks so that I can feel helpless and know that I’m not going anywhere until she or they say so and have to take the punishment. I want to be naked as well as it increases vulnerability and embarrassment and contributes to feeling submissive. Any implement but the cane is fine. I prefer the skin on skin intimacy of hand spankings.
     
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  18. Forever Edger

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    Being whipped with a horse whip on the butt can be stimulating for both the man and the woman.
     
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  19. Forever Edger

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    I am glad you brought this up. Communication, knowing limits. What body part usually the butt. How hard. It can be very exciting for both partners.
     
  20. Dayna Johnson

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    I would enjoy you spanking me while my boyfriend watched. Not bi though.
     
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