put it in your tongue, let it just sit there, don't worry if you fuck around with it, even chew it a little once in a while... just keep it in your mouth till it disintegrates. do whatever feels natural.
i've heard of people letting it sit in their mouth and saying dont swallow it and then others say you want to swallow it... which is better, or does it matter? cause it seems like swallowing would hit you faster but maybe not as strong??? idk
Let it sit in your mouth, it absorbs faster sublingualy. Also, no offense, but your logic needs some work. If something hits you faster than your body is absorbing it faster which means its going to hit you harder.