My sex life is fine, I think. I've never had any problems, and all the girls I have been with have said I am good in bed, but there is one thing that has bothered me. I've only had intercourse with 2 people. My previous girlfriend, and a good friend of mine. With my previous girlfriend, I was quite nervous and my dick had trouble getting up when we were about to fuck. It was fine up until then. I am totally comfortable with pretty much everything. Fingering, being jerked off, licking, jerking off on her, etc. etc. But when it comes to intercourse with a new sexual partner, things seem to go for the worse. With my previous girlfriend, it went almost completely flaccid the first time, then it got better but it took some tries and failures. After that, things were excellent. Now, I thought this was a thing of the past, but a friend of mine and I fucked a few days ago and the same thing sort of happened. It was an improvement though. Like always I was erect when we were touching each other and I was fingering her, but then it started going a bit flaccid. It worked alright after a while, but then we had to move a bit further from the bedroom wall, and then it went flaccid. I joked about it and we continued fingering and licking. It ended good, but I am still sort of emberrased and it is not very cool. I wasn't nervous, but a bit tense. So basically it happens to my new sexual partners, but once we have gotten to do it a few times, it works out great. It's those first times that bother me. So what can I do to turn off that tension? My dick is perfectly fine, and it is fine when we do everything except when we are about to fuck, or sort of also when I am lying on top of her, it seems. If I have a sexual partner, this should be fine, but when we are talking about a passionate encounter, I want Junior to be erect. So what can I do?
i understand what your problem is... i think that you just worry too much.. maybe it's because you need to get to know them better... i am not sure.. but i think that that's the problem or maybe...
Don't think about it! Just realize you're about to have some incredibly passionate wild sex!! =D I've only had a problem with becoming flaccid once...and that was because of narcotics. Heh...
have her talk dirty to you.. to tell you to get your cock inside her.. and to tell you that she wants your cock really bad... that sort of thing. sometimes guys I think have a fear of being swallowed up when they are first getting used to the feeling of being INSIDE a woman.. as if they will bite their cocks off! believe me.. your girlfriend WANTS your cock inside her... YEAH!!
