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Discussion in 'Relationships' started by pandapandapanda, Jun 25, 2013.

  1. pandapandapanda

    pandapandapanda Member

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    I thought maybe I could get advice to a situation I put upon myself. Its rather embarrassing but in a way I'm a hopeless romantic. A year relationship should feel as such but without knowing I've fallen in love. The dumb smiles at the mention of his name is rather scary. But I've lost countless friends. I'm not sure why but is there a way to stop growing attached? Just in case of a break up?
     
  2. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    What are you trying to say? Be more exact... go into more details...

    You're in a relationship for a year annnnd......? (you are scared of being too attached as you may lose said person? .... is there anything else to it?)
     
  3. pandapandapanda

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    A year that is different. Long distance. My fear is he is a catfish. Love is a rarity in my life. My friends hated I was happy. If I push away nd lose the attachment am I bound to be the empty person I was? My mind is in a daze cuz no one shows interest in me cuz I am rather odd. . .
     
  4. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    Your friends hated that you are happy?

    Sounds like you need new friends
     
  5. pandapandapanda

    pandapandapanda Member

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    Well they are gone. But one stayed nd she is my big sis nd yeah...
     
  6. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    Panda... gonna ask you something because I'm trying to figure out your posts right now... but are you drunk? lol

    and yea your friends sound terrible if they don't want you happy... maybe they think you're in a bad relationship? and what do you mean a catfish?
     
  7. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    as I asked before... gonna ask again cause it would explain a lot (to me)...

    are you drunk?
     
  8. pandapandapanda

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    I'm 20 too young to be drunk. My taste in men is odd but I'm happy. He is fake is what I mean
     
  9. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    too young at be drunk at 20? okaaaaay sure.
    um you currently totally sober?
    how is your taste in men odd?
    oh well if he's fake just ditch him. have you talked on the phone? (assuming you never met).... how to not get attached to someone you think is fake? tell yourself he's fake!! just... break apart. meet someone else.
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    catfish are all too real. if anyone's faking it's those fucking dolphins. mammals pretending to be fish, what's next?
     
  11. pandapandapanda

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    I'm a complex human you need to talk more to understand. Like I said love is a rarity
     
  12. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    lol love is not rare :D

    love is everywhere :D

    neways...you're complex.... ? free write for.... ten mins? .... in this post and post it and I will analyze you
     
  13. pandapandapanda

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    When mad I seem to have the ability to stump a person with one sentence. I blush with a simple hi from anyone. My shyness makes me run rather fast from people. I'm impossible to understand on my days that I watch too much anime. My questions are dumb but some actually make people think. I'm only remembered for the bad not good. Family is far more important to me then anything and I never talk bad unless it is to there face. I get in fights for those I care for no matter what gender. I yell at movies....
     
  14. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    based on that you do not seem odd. no odder than anyone else. everyone is fucking weird. :D

    ^^^^ just wanna comment on this one...

    I always say (okay, well, I think it all the time)... "Here I am doing another thankless task"..... meaning no one is gonna usually thank you or remember when you do good. But you still do it anyways (oh but it's not true really that ppl don't remember the good just that....well, yes, they WILL remember the bad.. and all the good? you might get a thanks now n then but usually it's just....stuff YOU know and that has to be good enough.)
     
  15. pandapandapanda

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    Well after I raised my brothers and nephews I was sent away. Now my brothers hate me and my nephews as well. My brothers were my kids. Nd that's what I mean by the good I've done.
     
  16. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    that sucks....but, that is family for ya. you can't chose or help who they are and people get screwed over by fam all the time... you don't see them at all?

    anyways tho regardless that was a great thing you did and at least YOU know it (and have the experience)...
     
  17. pandapandapanda

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    I actually don't want children.Nd no. My family except my mom have no ties with me. Its just blood nothingmore
     

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