I think I have been holding back from the whole dating thing during highschool so far because of how i think teenage women act. Like, it would be really cool if i found a chick that would want to lay on the grass at the park all day and listen to pink floyd and do stuff like that, but i dont know anyone of that sort. Should I just wait? I am planning on trying to hook up with somebody at my friends party in a week, but should i force my self to get someone's number, or just wait? Last time i made myself do that I found out, after a couple trips to the mall/hours on the phone, that she was really annoying an not like me at all (although i can be annoying!). It doesn't help that i go to an all guys school either. I jis need somebody. What should i do?
I didn't date anybody in high school aside from taking people to dances. I don't regret that one bit - but that's me. Also, sometimes the buildup and the longing and swooning are all better than the actual relationship turns out to be. So for you, I say just enjoy the chase and let come what may. If you see a good chance to ask for her number (usually happens when you're parting) go for it, otherwise, just relax and enjoy the pink floyd. Oh, and always remember that you're nothing with somebody if you're nothing without anybody.
you shouldnt force yourself to do anything bud. Most girls (especially your age) suck ass. (and yes, guys suck alot too) They are extremely superficial and non-independent most of the time. But if you want a g/f, find a girl who isnt loud and obnoxious, doesnt have to be the center of attention at parties and stuff. The chill girls. The ones that can sit down and have an intelligent conversation without saying how many drinks they have had on any given occasion. You shouldnt just go for a girl because you want one. You have to go for the ones you are attracted to, mentally. Theres nothing wrong with scoring numbers and then hanging out with them later. But just dont rush into things (as it seems like what happened with your last experience), it takes time to find a special someone. Some times a long ass time. Hope this helps, sorry for rambling
exactly jacob ~ I know how fellow girls can be...Im a girl who likes laying on the grass and just laying back- listening to music. Whenever I hang with girls my age...wow they are so loud and i just want them to HUSH! Your time will come...be patient, and you'll get that "click" Even though it might take a while...hell, im 17 and still waiting, but it's fine Chill and relax...
yea d man i lovethe old music and just really stuff old. if i have nuthin to do i go and listen to some zeppelin floyd and stuff like that. i had a girl one time we was goin pretty good then one of our dates was sittin on my car hood listenin to zeppelin. she hated it and never let it go. she kept sayin that this music is aweful and stuff. so i broke it off. i can never find someone that likes my music an aira.
Everyone says you need to be patient but thats really not working out for me so im guessing its not working for you. Try MSN or bebo etc whatever its called i think you'd be able to meet alot of people on there or i guess you could take up clubs etc then you're more likely to find someone of the same interests.
i definitely agree with peace. alot of times i have found myself thinking that i don't care for many teenagers b/c of the way they act, but you shouldn't really stereotype a group of ppl though. i don't think u should force urself into anything. but, i don't know if i'm one to talk since i never had a boyfriend in highschool ( i just graduated). but i don't like the idea of going out with someone just to not be single. but, like you, i didn't know any guys at my school that i would've clicked with, kinda like how u said someone who would just lay on the grass and listen to music..that's the way i am. but i wish you the best of luck, and i'm pretty positive that it will work out. everything happens for a reason, or at least i hope.
It takes a while, cool chicks are rare. I'm in college now and I've only found a handful, besides the one or two that went to my high school. Not all of them are worth the time, effort, or money to take out. Try someone that isn't from your school, or that lives a town over or something, if you absolutely can't find anyone in your high school. If you meet somebody who's nice but doesn't have all the same interests as you, try to experiment a little. Listen to a CD that you like in the car, see if they like it. Give somebody a chance, find a #1 prospect and go with it.
i'd love to meet a guy who just wants to lie in the grass listening to music, so theres gotta be girls around you who would as well. and seriously, if a girl likes you enough, she'll be happy just to be with you... she won't care whether you wanna lie around or you wanna play icehockey.
Just wait. Theres someone out there for everyone. It took me 16 years to find someone. And hes already in college and were very happy together. Not all teenage girls act like you think they do. There are some girls out there that are looking for the exact same thing you are. You need to get out more and meet new people instead of hanging around the same people all the time. Once you start meeting new people you will eventually meet someone you can actually like. One night stands are just stupid they can ruin your life. They ruined mine and i would do anything to go back and change what i did. Just dont worry eventually that someone will come up to you and when she does you will know because you will make a connnection right away just from looking in there eyes. I did and now im the happiest person in the whole wide world and nothing and no one can change that.
you don't have to find love.. let love find you.. 'coz when you are in a hurry to be in love..sometimes it end up with nothing..
