some one please explain the mentality

of hating someone because they're with your ex, or hating someone because they were once in a relaitonship with your current partner, or hating someone because they once had sex with your mate or all the other convoluted bullshit entailed. i think it's retarded. it's so far beyond my comprehension. i don't get it.

 

some people mistake hate for jealousy I guess

 

I think it could possibly be a territorial thing. I don't know.

 

i guess. it wierds me out, and when you're out with your friends and they go from normal to dumb as a box of rocks in .5 seconds, it kinda kills my buzz. like i'm gonna go "kick that bitch's ass because she slept with kelly's boyfriend." wtf?

 

simple, insecurity

 

heh. that's way too easy a catch-all. i'm not the securest person in the world, but i don't see the point.

 

I find that most of the seedier things we do are out of insecurity or selfishness

 

Guilty by association? People who hang out with assholes must also be an asshole?

However the whole "I'm gonna kick her head in for sleeping with him" thing is so very high school...

 

morons
if they aren't worth you dating them anymore, why on earth would you get upset over their current partner?
I blame stupidity

 

They don't hate you. They hate the fact that you found happiness where they couldn't. It's like if I lost money and two days later you went to the place I lost said money and found it. I wouldn't expect you to return it but I'd want it back.

 

I do not pose any hatred towards my boyfriend's ex girlfriend. I find her antics quite amusing. She is a classic stalker. Whenever her current toy abandons her, she feels the need to try and force her way back into Tommy's life. There is nothing more entertaining than her limit of eight phone calls a day. (Thank God for caller id). Regardless of how many times my boyfriend tells her off and states that he wants nothing to do with her, she will call his home until she finally grows weary of either no one answering, or his mother/sister picking up the phone. At the same time, she is harrasing her most current ex boyfriend.

 

heh. nah, these girls are totally in hate with another human being who had NOTHING to do with them. they're totally outta their stupid heads. i think it's a sign of poor reasoning abilities.

 

Yeah , I think it has a lot to do w/ insecurity & jealousy...It's a shame that people can be so petty

 

This doesn't make sense to me either