Some bisexual women

Alot of women who consider themselves to be bisexual seem to not be interested in romantic relationships with other women. They usually just call themselves bisexual because they like having sex with other women. Yet, the go on to pursue relationships with men. Do you think it is right for them to call themselves bisexual? And what is it that makes loving another girl so hard-the fact that she doesn't have a penis?!?!

 

If your sexually attracted to both sexes then your bisexual is nothing to do with having relationships, there will be just as many bisexual women that would say that they couldn't have a relationship with men.
it seems that a lot of bisexuals get persecuted for being honest enough to say that they are attracted to both sexes and honest enough to say that they could have a relationship with one sex and one sex only.
its about emotional attachment not about gentila
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Im bi...and have been in an emotional relationship with a man for 26 years....much longer than any I have ever had with a lady.

 

it annoys me the things people feel that they can get away about saying about bisexuals, things that would be classed as down right homophobic if it was said about gay people
S

 

So verry true Sam.....and I feel bad because its not fair !!!!!!!!

 

If these women aren't bisexual, I don't know which term a person could use.

There's no word out there that means "heterosexual woman who likes getting it on with other women every once in a while."

There are many different ways of being homosexual and many ways of being heterosexual and many ways of combining the two. There are lesbians and gay men who end up having sex with one of these bisexuals who isn't really interested in having a deep relationship with someone of the same sex. Sometimes the lesbian or gay man ends up falling in love with the bisexual and things don't go well. All too often, a heart gets broken. This is where much of the negative feelings about bisexuals comes from.

 

That's exactly what happened to me.

 

anyone of any sexuality can and do mess people around, I think its wrong to make a sweeping judgement about people
S

 

Yeah...I've been screwed over by straight guys, lesbians, bisexual girls,bisexual guys...no transexuals though! heh, but I know that being screwed over by a transexual will most likely happen, because it's ME,you know? I'm the one with terrible luck in every relationship.

 

You're contradicting yourself, there. "It's about emotional attachment not genetalia". Yes, that is exactly what I was trying to say. Alot of 'bisexual' women don't even give girls a chance to be in an emotionally attached relationship, because they are girls. But they will give guys a chance. I'm saying, that I think it is rather silly that someone who claims to be bisexual can only be emotionally attached to one gender. I mean no offense to anyone when I say that...it is only my opinion and not everyone likes it. And that is fine with me.

 

Sexual orientation is about being sexually attracted to a certain gender, or both genders. Relationships are about emotional attachment. They're not the same thing.

By your standards, I can never be in a relationship with any one person and remain bisexual, I'd have to be in a relationship with two people at the same time. And I am for sure oh so foxy, but I don't think I could pull that off.

And since I'm not dating anyone at all right now, what does that make me?

 

Just fuck it!

I'm sick of people misenterpreting what I say. You've got it all wrong, but think what you want. You still don't know what the hell you're talking about.

Why does everyone have to take every single thing I say so damn seriously?

 

I'm trying to reflect on whats going on here?
how about the thread about the gay cure, you took offensive to that, now is the 'i'm not being serious' statement a good enough excuse, or are some statements just offensive and sweeping, no matter how they are intended.
as a male gay man, I can't see how a female bisexual could read your introductory post in this thread and not be offended by it.

have you suffered from any prejudice in your life, if so think about how you felt?
would 'i was only joking' make it all ok?
S

 

Ok...Autumnsmoonchild, Ive been reading your threads, and , being Bi my entire life, if I werent so grounded, some of what you said could have hurt pretty bad. I really think you need to gather your thoughts before you speak, just for the sake of those younger, brand new souls that sre creeping from their closets. They dont need any more mis- informed judgements tossed at them, Especially on a forum thats herejust for them !!

 

absolutly
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Yes, I have been the target of alot of prejudice throughout my life. Actually, if someone really was only joking, then it would be fine with me. But I know that not everyone feels that way. And I do apologize for anyone who took offense to my post. I can't really put my thoughts into words that well, no matter how hard I try. I'm not trying to offend anyone. I just don't understand how some women call themselves bisexual, but only want a fuck with a women, and don't want an emotional relationship. In my mind, I see that as straight. Just as a women who would call theirself bisexual and refused to pursue a romantic relationship with a man, but would have sex with them would be considered a lesbian who has sex with men every now and then. That's just how my mind works, and it's not like I can change the way I tick just because more than half the people I come across doesn't like it. Yes, I am a complete hypocrite. I already know that. I have a really hard time walking in other people's shoes, so to speak. I'm just trying to better understand others, not offend them. & again, I apologize to anyone I may of offended.

 

Here's a question... do you think it is okay for a heterosexual person to have sex with someone and not want to be in a relationship?

It might be that you can't see sex outside of an emotional relationship, and everyone just isn't that way... regardless of sexual preference.

 

hmm i'm way way beyond exhausted,,,but ok,
1st off i'm prolly prety close to 98.925687% atracted to women..most if not all of the ppl i'm close with are women...everyones bi..everyone..its all love.. butu just fall somewhere on sa scale of which attracts u most..
(your relationships with men are different as well..
tome if iloved someone & she wanted a relationship wirh a woman, i'd totaly understand
its all love itsall sex its all sharing & caring.. women & men interact diferently sexualy mentaly & emotionaly.. ..its all crazy biochemistry...u build the relationships u do because of the way u interact & react to ..diferent sexes ..i should have been asleeep..10 hours ago...
okithinki goit it now
i've noidea whst i just sain...

 

I'm not bi, I love women, I just don't want to go to bed with them, the point when I am sexually attracted to women, I'll call myself Bi
S

 

iunderstand completely.. idont call myself bi either.. but i realize as well that we are whowe are..u r probly 99.999913% attracted to men...i dont think theres realy a true 100% but like anything with love is u love whou love your attracted to who your attracted to.....i pretty much love everybody, i respect women more...most....some men i respect alot....its all sbout how you interact & have had interactionds with different genders.. but its niot even genders, its people
(srry drymouth from hell..took a medicinal tincure & no sleep 4 days)