I've been sort of seeing this guy at my work for about a month now. We've been pretty physical but haven't had sex yet, my reason is because I just don't think I'm ready to do that with him(in general I've been ready before, but something about him makes me want to wait) Like I've said in previous posts, I work at a car dealership with my dad. My dad HATES the guy and always calls him a lying whore and if I get hurt he will make life for him very difficult, yet he said it was okay and for me to just be careful. This has been in the back of my mind for a while. The past week my car has had a lot of problems so I've had to take it in, and the whole time I'm hanging out with this guy it's all about sex. I try to talk to him about things and he just will ask me if I'm coming over that night, if I say no, he just gets up and leaves, saying something about wasting his time. I really don't know what's happened to him! Being a cheerleader the other night I had a game and he kept calling me in the middle of it to ask if I was coming over and each time I told him no he would hang up. But then earlier that day we were being all cute at work and talking and cuddling and wrestling around. The guys we work with make jokes about what my dad will think when I bring him home as my boyfriend and my guy just tells them to be serious and gets this weird look. So I guess he has just been playing around. I don't even want to know what he's been telling them about me! I'm not working for awhile because of school, is it bad that I'm hoping that something goes wrong with my car just so I can see him again? Was he only after me for the thrill of screwing his coworkers daughter? Or does he just not know how to handle things?
exactly correct. this guy is just after sex - its obvious! he hangs up the phone if you say you arn't coming over. he'll fuck you and leave you. you can do a lot better than that. if he's acting all cute its just him trying to get you into bed.
Yep Sillybird, this guy sounds like trouble. He treats you like shit and you want more. I've been in a similer situation before. end it a.s.a.p.
yup, he's just looking for sex. There isn't anything wrong with that if that's all you're looking for too, but sounds like you want something more than that.
Well shit I might as well get in on this. I agree with what everyone has said. Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier.
He wants sex. Smart man. If you just want superficial crazed sexing, go for it. Somehow I think you don't.
Hi SillyBird. Listen, your a sexy bird, with a sexy body and a sexy mind (no doubt) and your just driving this guy wild because your showing some interest in him but it's not leading to anything as far as he's concerned. He may just wanna screw you, but just because he's getting a bit stroppy with you, doesn't automatically mean that he just wants to fuck you. Girls love all that flirting and suggestion and fantasizing, as do guys, but you cant keep a guy waiting too long, or else he will start to see you as a cock tease, and then, all he will want to do is to screw you. So my advice is, if you have started to pay him some attention, but you don't wanna screw yet, then take it step by step, but don't screw him around. As a rule of thumb, a half decent and genuine guy can wait a month if he thinks your serious, but if he thinks your a cock tease, then he'll just wanna screw you from day one. So what I would say is, don't cock tease him if you don't know what you want, because he has feelings to, and you'll just be frustrating him sexually, which is the worst thing you can do to anyone as it brings out the worst in people. That's my opinion. HotelAfrique
Thanks. I totally forgot I had posted about his until you replied. I don't know what I was thinking when I started that whole thing. I still work with the guy but once I told him he wasn't the only thing in my life(ie: school, sports, work) he became really confrontational and obnoxious. He's screwing around with some younger girl now and I could careless. I don't need to be treated like crap. So now I'm just working with him when I have to but besides for that I'm just doing my own thing.
Ok. He sounds like a waste of time. Don't worry, the right one will come in time. Just believe in yourself and have fun and don't feel that you have to impress people, unless you want to. HotelAfrique
i was about to respond, but looks like you got things figured out yourself. good girl. so you're a cheerleader, eh? neato! i was one for 4 years, but by the time i was a senior i was way into the hippie side of things, and at my high school there was just no room for a stoned cheerleader lol. i'm sort of excited theres another one out there though,lol. but i'm confused, i thought you lived in norway or someplace? do they have football and cheerleaders there?
Nope, I live in PA. You're thinking of Sara Rose I think. And anyway, yeah my whole squad is pretty much straight edge but me and about 5 others. So 5 out of 19 ain't bad I guess.
musta just been the flag as your avitar then. you're lucky, i was the only one. those bitches turned me into the school, even. "kenzie smokes pot. i think you should search her car. i think its seriously effecting our performance." ugh whatever.
Awww, yeah there are some girls like that, but us bad ones stick together. It's pretty much the partiers that go off with the football boys and then the rest of them wonder why no one likes them. It's sad when they go and tattle to the coaches about the captains and me going to a party with the football players. But like you said, whatever, that's the way girls are.
It's called jealousy... I think jealousy is actually flattering. It means they think somewhat highly of you. Obvioulsy, you are doing SOMETHING right if they waste energy on being jealous.
