so what do i say to her??

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by oh so fleecy, Oct 8, 2005.

  1. oh so fleecy

    oh so fleecy Member

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    So there's this girl that I like, she's told me she likes me (over the internet, not in person, but i told her first because she was asking questions and such) and she's told her friends the same. But I dont know how to ask her out!! :( I really really like her, yesterday we watched movies in her basement for almost 6 hours, and I just wanted to ask her "so do you want to be my girlfriend?" but what if that makes things all weird and all? like what if we "have to" hold hands just because i asked her out, and if we dont, itll feel awkward? Its to bad that we cant just know that we are "together" even though i havent asked her...

    What do i say? I've always been a quiet kid and never very lucky with the ladies (not that it bothers me and such), but I just dont want to ruin this, I like her so much...
     
  2. paix

    paix Senior Member

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    I would say ask her out on an official date before asking the big "girlfriend" question. But definatly go for it, you'll be sooooo much happier, even if the answer is no, atleast you'll know.


    Good luck!
     
  3. turtlefriend

    turtlefriend Member

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    Say "hey, we should hang out sometime."
     
  4. Flashback

    Flashback Member

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    I would wait for HER to ask you to be her boyfriend.It's always better that way.IMO.
    ~peace & love
     
  5. lawngirl

    lawngirl Member

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    ask her out and let things flow naturally. don't ask her to be your girlfriend if you're worried about "having to hold her hand" and such. be honest about your feelings, but don't lay anything on too strong too soon. just let it flow. guide it, don't rush it.. you like her, she likes you, you're as together as you need to be right now.
     
  6. nudeinthesand

    nudeinthesand Member

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    if she likes you,then go ahead an ask her out......i know for sure she wont turn you down.......life is short.... so ask her out



    you cannot be in love and be wise
     
  7. Hikaru Zero

    Hikaru Zero Sylvan Paladin

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    Do my favourite thing: Go on a date with her, and then at the end, look her in the eye and say this:

    "So ... you know, if my friends ask me if I have a girlfriend ... what should I tell them?"
     
  8. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    I like Hikaru's suggestion. That's usually how I approach such matters :)
     
  9. paix

    paix Senior Member

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    that's damn brilliant, do that dude!
     
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