I met him one night at my usual hang out. we went back to his apartment and we had sex. Needless to say it was mind blowing. He called me a few days later and told me his next day off and he wanted to chill then, I said okay and I ended up sleeping over and we had sex again. A few days later I get a text from him saying "I dont want a relationship I am really sorry if I hurt you I still want to be friends blah blah blah" which was fine, I dont really want a relationship either. So I texted him back saying "thats cool I dont want a relationship either im happy where we are at" So last Friday I call him I let it ring once, realized he was on the other line and hung up. About 3 minutes later he calls me back. I called to see if he wanted to chill that weekend he said yeah and he will call me Saturday so I waited and he never called. Sunday I texted him and asked what was up he responded and we went back and forth a bit and I left it at "hope to hear from you soon" ya know so the ball is in his court, he responded with "you will". So I see him at his work I think the day before yesterday, (he works at Stop and Shop and I legit had to go in there) , I just nodded my head and said a casual "whats up" as I kept walking. Kinda bitchy I guess? So I guess I have a few questions 1.Would you consider us FWB (friends with benefits)/ fuck buddies? 2. Should I wait for him to initiate contact or should I call him yet again? 3. Am I reading waaay to into this? My friends tell me I am but I cant help it, I HATE hanging like this... wow I sound like a 14 year old creepy stalker school girl. haha. I guess I just really want to know what I should do, maybe from a guys perspective? AGH!
hes got yer number. he prolly believes what you said. i ussually believe what folks say.he might be into sum other chic right now or sumthin.most men chase unless we got a reason not to.ide say chill n have fun elsewere .if you live in boston theres alotta tail there.lotta cock too. let it go fer a bit. mind you im a drunk bastard n will gladly run my gob.
1. No. FWB/fuckbuddies are friends that hang out, but occasionally fuck when either one might need a good lay. In you're situation, you are what is called a "Booty-call" He goes long periods without seeing you, then only contacts you when he wants ass. 2.you can wait, but when he does, all he wants is a one night thing then you won't here from him untill the next time he's got no other option. 3. Yes. Why? See the answers listed above.^ personally, i think its guys like him that make the rest of us look bad. Jerk.
ah, so he is keeping me at an arms length so he can get some ass when he wants. thats chill.But, how come when I want some he's not there in my time of need!? hahaha
your a lovley girl real pritty dont let him mess with you ,plenty of guys out there would love to be with you, peace ,
I think waiting is wrong. If something bothers you, you should communicate it to him. Additionally, if you're available everytime, and he isn't... If you keep your word when you say you'll call, and he doesn't...that betrays a lack of MUTUALITY. All healthy relationships, even friends-with-benefits, require open communication and mutual respect.
"Oh well, don't go always after him." Formertechno34, I definatly agree with him, you need to make him want it.
