stupid male hormones, why the hell cant they tell when woman is married. cause damit Im hot for a married momma. anyways shes alwasy bitchen her hubbyes an a-hole dead beat, and she wishes hed get job &... bla bla bla. Leaves me wondering if its worth a shot too make moove on her. subtilly of course. she one of the secretatries at the machine shop where i work, so if it all runs afowl it could be a bit awkward, paricularly since we actually get along fairly well and usualy chat all lunch, that and her sister works their too. Im allerady doing subtil things, Ive been particluary friendly and usfull around her. this is all soo freekin low, what the hell am i doing
Don't do it! Find yourself a hot young easy chick to get your mind off of her. I know that sounds shallow, but you won't regret it later.
Dont listen to happyhahagirl, getting caught up in the moment and doing stupid things you'll regret is what being a man is all about. Really, at times like these, you have to trust your instincts, and since your instincts are probably wrong, just make sure you have a really good time with it. If you want to feel less 'low' about it, be less subtle and go for it like she were the last woman on earth. If she shoots ya down, you'll both forget about it within a week, and if she goes for ya, you'll thank me for it. Ti'll you regret it. isn't life magical...
Well, it could be dangerous. My best friend started sleeping with a married lady, and one day her husband walked in on them and tried to kill him. He totally ruined her marriage and her family, and the worst part is that he really didn't have any remorse. Maybe he shouldn't. I don't know. But I think that, as a rule, you should always always keep married people off limits. Just pretend she's dead. Engaged is different. I'm still working on stopping one, myself....hehe
lets try to be intellegent here guys, does she acctually have a family with this guy??? kids, a house, a golden retreiver...etc. if not then i dont see what the big deal is, if she does have kids, then i wouldn't, thats just selfish on both parties, if she is truly unhappy with her man then yeah show her a good tyme babe! just make sure their are no lil one's involved. oh and how long has she been married to him? long time...no not long and if she's young, then whyyyy not she shouldn't be married ne ways!!!
Regardless of all that, she's still married. And if her marriage is bad, how do you know she doesn't really like you, but she is either purposely or subconciously using you as her means of escape? You are a potential pawn in her sick, PMS-y game of life!I just always keep the worst-case scenario in the back of my mind. It's not always a bad idea. It helps with preparation.
Well i agree that getting with someone who's married, and especially if she has a family probably isn't the best idea... it happens. you gotta do what you think is best. Follow your dreams cousinit.
Happyhahagirl, keeping the worst case situation in mind is more of a principle for hurricane preparation. You probably will be sparing yourself a lot of trouble to just forget her, but cost beinfit anylasis in love is a good way to never be happy with anything.
Haha, dont make up your mind on what i say though... I may only be 19, but I've made a lot of women mad in that amount of time.
i know im not gonna, but if she were not maried be thier in a second i think its that shes a short curvy red head with pale freckly skin, ive alwasy had problems with red heads. that problem would mostly be starin at them like an idiot. particulalry when they have a nice smile. ------------- her older sisters is always available, but she kinda scares me. I could see her breakin out the S&M chains and wanting to do it all to slayer music. She dose like younger guys though. shes over 30 and the last guy I saw her with was probaby in high school still. can you say sugar momma.
Well, I have been on all sides of the cheating coin, so I'm not going to get into any moral debates... However, the part about her working with you, I will share an opinion on... If things don't work out, it will be quite awkward. Depending on who breaks who's heart, it could be quite troublesome. Imagine if she breaks up with you and you have to see her everyday, how horrible that will be... Also, how does your boss feel about cheating? If they don't approve, it may be possible that you both could lose your jobs, if you get caught. Also, if her sister works there too, if things don't work out, you will likely find yourself in a bad place. Some women, not all, but some... Can get very... Weird... You might find yourself in the middle of a snakepit. Workplace romances are not a problem, as long as you guys don't work together. If you're in different departments and are able to avoid one another, after the breakup, then go for it. But if it's close quarters.... I'd be thinking twice, three times even... Just my opinion, take it or leave it...
