So I think I'm a lesbian, but not sure..

Ok well I've dated more guys than girls, but I think thats just cause I haven't had the opportunity to date more girls. I am definitely physically attracted to some guys, but very few. Its more of a recent thing but I don't check out guys anymore, I'll find myself looking at girls.
I also feel a lot more at ease when I'm with a girl rather than a guy. I always have my guard up around guys because I'm used to them always hitting on me gets annoying.

The thing is I've never gone all the way with a girl, mainly because I haven't had the chance.. So I'm just not sure what to call myself, and I wish I could meet some more bi/lesbian chics.

 

Well idk where you live but here in Hollywood they have SOME gay clubs that allow people younger than 18 in. If you have one of those clubs i suggest going their A
A good place to meet like mided people

 

Okay, this is really fucking simple.

If you like guys, you like guys.
If you like girls, you like girls.

Go fourth, and have sex with what you like having sex with.

 

Man I wish we had some of those here, might have to move to hollywood or some big city lol. there tend to be more open people there anyway.

 

Try relaxing, be yourself and an attraction will find you.
I know of a few (youger than u) girls who; for 'safety/bad news boys' reasons, went to the 'Gay/lesbian' areas of the city, there they saw, felt and sometimes indulged in the 'ambience' for some it was 'a phase' for others a natural finding out.
Though I wouldn't rush into anything to ascertain certanties, only you know how you feel.
"Love (and sexual preference) will find a way" I am sure

 

Its not simple for everyone, chill. Besides this forum is for this kind of topic. Don't gotta be rude.

 

I'm pretty sure we don't have anything like that here sadly.

 

It IS simple.

You DO know if you're attracted. You're just asking about generalizations about entire genders and about labels.

If you want a label, it's pretty obvious that you're bisexual, and that you're just applying silly generalizations to men, probably because girls your age (and even considerably older) are usually incapable of seeing anyone who's not a complete asshole as available. Besides, if they're nice, they gotta be gay, right?

"am I lesbian because all the "men" in my life are jerks?"

 

90% of my friends are guys so no thats not the issue.

I wasn't looking for someone to rant to me because something I say is simple to them, if we have different opinions so what I have no desire to argue.

 

Im talking about hollywood,california hehe
I know there a hollywood,florida as well

 

I did not know that lol

 

I agree with the going to clubs idea. You will definitely meet lots of girls willing to get with you.

 

That's my life story right there. lol I've dated more guys and girls and I haven't actually had sex with any girls but I know I'm not straight. I'm just not attracted to most men.

 

"not strait" does not logically follow "not attracted to most men".

 

Why not?

 

Because strait does not denote attraction to EVERY man, but one who is far enough to the "likes men" end of the bisexuality spectrum that their attraction to women is dwarfed.

I'm "strait", but I sure as hell don't feel attraction to every woman. There are many that are unattractive because they're stupid, bitches, stupid bitches, have the clap, or are just plain ugly. Doesn't make me gay, because I am not attracted to most girls.

And even while I'm "strait", I can see situations where I might end up getting with a guy.

This is seriously NOT a difficult concept. Bang who you wanna bang, but the "I broke up with my douchebag of a boyfriend, and don't like douchebags, so I'm totally lesbian" thing is really annoying.

 

Oh, I see, you're just taking what I said too literally. I'm not a fan of labels, therefore I always just say "I'm not straight." instead of saying the typical "I'm bisexual." Nothing more to it.

 

labels come into play because the majority of society uses them. simple as that.

 

That doesn't mean you need to conform to everyone else's ideology. This is when you think of yourself and don't compromise your personal morals for others.

 

Thats the last thing I would do.